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18-01-2005, 17:08
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Here goes.. my cRaZy PHUKET story.. LOVE, BG's, TSUNAMI, this is movie material
Well here goes u guys... I have been reading this forum for a long time and never really posted. I did ask for a little help before I left for my solo trip to Thailand and all of you were of great help. I spent 5 and a half weeks in Thailand and had the time of my life. I felt compelled to write this because everytime i try to tell people here my story no one really understands since I am here in North America. So I would like to share my story with all of you since you can relate and ask u ur opinion on where I stand with my Tilak. My story at times will have to omit some names and places you will all understand if you read on. Were to start well this might go long so I'll give those a sneek peek and if you seem interested read on. This trip involved me almost dying in the Tsunami, me falling for a bar girl, crazy crazy nites in Patong, spending a week with my Tilak in bangkok, then ending the trip to a visit to her family, oh and more BG stories.
My first two nites in Phuket sucked cuz i was stuck outside of Patong in Kata beach. I didn't know anybody and didn't know anything about Thailand. On the third nite tho I had my first encounter with Bangla road and thought to myself "Oh my god i could never imagine a place like this existed in the world." I got fooled like many others with the lady boy soi, Soi Crocodile right???, and at first started checkin one out and was tryin to get his/her attention then finally realized that they were all ladyboys there. But my first time with Soi Eric which i must say is my most favourite place in the world, was an experience it was 9:30 p.m. so the place was still empty but full of BG's, holy shit the feeling of 200 gurls starin at u and wanting u to come in was sooooo intimidating. I had to walk thru and the first time u walk thru a soi is an experience everyone must go thru. "HELLO" , "WELCOME", "WHERE R U FROM??"... We all know these lines. I was tooo intimidated and didn't know how things worked so I didn't grab a gurl my first day instead i walked thru every single soi on Banlga Rd. and had a drink at as many bars as i could. The second nite i was determined to grab a BG so I grabbed this one who said she would take me to her house and we could stay there the nite. Here is a pointer to all... Once u grab a BG from the bar she will attempt to take u to other places like a club or restaurant, if you don't mind go ahead with it but understand that it is just to waste time for BOOM BOOM or in their own words its to save their body. So we go to Tiger and stay there for a bit and then i tell her its time to go. We go on her motorbike and start heading to her house. On the way she tells me her story (Note: Every bar girl has a sob story for example how she has to work to support her parents or even how she has kids to support or something to that effect, every bar girl will tell u she doesn't want to work the bars anymore, and all will make u feel for them by showing u pictures, they all have picture albums all of them do and they love showing them) Me being the rookie I was started feeling sorry for her. We get to her place its a shack a run down little apartment if you can call it that, she even had pictures on the wall of her b4 she became a bar girl. She looks like any normal gurl made me even feel more sorry for her. She kept repeating about she sends all her money to her family and wants to go back home, how she misses her life b4, and how she misses her friends from her previous life. It got to me that I couldn't even get it up to make Boom Boom. It took me an hour to start not feeling as bad for her to make Boom Boom. After that I felt so bad that I was like here's 1500 baht just take me back. In my head i think she's done for the nite since it was like 1:30 already and she made as much as she woulda long time so she prob done. But nope she put her make up and told me she was goin to pick up her friend from the bar to give her a ride home. Yah right!!!! The next day I talked to a Thai man who became one of my friends and started laughing at me after I told him the story. I asked him why he goes they all say that they all make u feel bad for them... Then i realized that was my 1st lesson about BG's. The next nite i was on a mission to grab one for long time. I had met one the first nite that really struck me since she had known a bit about my country and to be honest i woulda grabbed her first but she was busy for the nite she said. But this nite I told myself i was goin to grab her for long time. So this time I spent a little more time talkin to her and first thing she says to me... "You aren't a cheap charlie are you?" and told me she had something to tell me later.(Note: Understand everyone the number one thing no matter what a BG tells u is money. Money is number one to bar girl.) A little about myself. Honestly I usually don't myself involved in these forums, I am 25 years old, well built, good looking (*Note: Thai gurls don't like good looking guys, they would rather be with a fat ugly old man. The reason this is, is because they get jealous easy and don't like the fact that other gurls would be interested in you. On top of that the majority of these old, ugly, fat men would take care of a BG. By that I mean give them pretty much anything they desire.) I date gurls back home that no lie look like Britney Spears, Christina Aquilera, etc. if you get my drift. So I am the last guy you'd think would be doin this kinda thing. I make pretty good money and don't mind spending it but I don't spend on stupid things. On top of that I made a oath to myself that I would have the time of my life no matter how much it cost. So I am no cheap charlie. I told her i was no cheap charlie and would pay wutever price she asked. If she asked for 5000 I woulda paid for it. She asked for 3000. I happily obliged. That nite we went to Banana, Tiger, and Dragon. The feeling I had that nite was amazing. Even tho I knew I had paid for her it felt so good knowing you had the hottest gurl holding your hand takin you around Patong. Felt like a movie she would run the streets draggin me thru Bangla Rd. We drank and danced the nite away. Then went back to my bungalow that I had rented for a month and her chin dropped since the place was beautiful, big, new and very very clean. I know when she saw that she wasn't thinkin I was a cheap Charlie anymore. She stayed the nite. U can imagine wut happened that nite on ur own. (Note: Bar girl secret. When I woke up the next morning i noticed that she had slowly started to move stuff into my place, shampoo, conditioner, intimate cleaner, toothbrush, even her underwear was hanging in my bathroom. This is a bar girl secret to make u keep her for a longer time. Make u feel bad to ask them to leave and make u think about them more and keep them.) This story seems like it will take a long time to write. And I don't wanna waste anybody's time. So I'll stop for now if you guys want me to continue please let me know if not I hope u guys enjoyed my first week in Patong. If you want more Holy Shit there's more there's still 4 more weeks. I still have to get into how she had to tell me about a secret which turned out to be she had a boyfriend who was coming in a week and how we continued our relationship. And also how I almost died in the Tsunami. More BG stories and my time with her (Tilak kong pom) in Bangkok and more BG's and Ping Pong shows in Bangkok. Well that's it for now. 
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18-01-2005, 17:17
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Could be a long story yes :)
But by all means carry on, not like I have anything else to do with my bad case of LOS blues
 Sounds interesting though and through you some might relive their first tour, ah those fond memories See you already have discovered some of the usual traps, some of the BG's are just plain sneaky...
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18-01-2005, 17:26
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Keep it coming! Maybe you have some photos?
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18-01-2005, 17:54
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me too. I was at BKK airport waiting for a flight to Phuket when the tsunami hit, so we were there about the same time. My first trip was a month before.
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18-01-2005, 18:08
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Don't stop the story while it was just getting started .....
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18-01-2005, 21:50
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good story lion,i hope your not still paying her 3000bht per night!/lt thats way too much!
--when u say you go out with beutiful girls in your home town ,i bet you spend at least as much on them as you do on a thai girl?-- so we all pay for sex in the end one way or another! btw im 53 ,fat and ugly, --cheers ! ps ,i experienced the tsunami too, i look forward to your next post about it-
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18-01-2005, 22:17
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Part 2
So that nite we actually stayed up till like 6 am. We did quite a bit of talking during that time in addition to the BOOM BOOM. She told me her little secret that she had a boyfriend. This is why I must not post pics or mention names or even some places. Just in case one of his friends of even himself reads this post. She told me how she had two children, was sending money to her parents, how she wanted to build a house and how she was like the one who supported the rest of her family back in her country as she would say. But that meant back in her province. Next thing she would tell me how she was done with Thai men. (Note: Most BG have had a real bad experience with thai men or just don't like Thai men in general.) But man she told me many things that nite some I cannot share on this forum since they are very close to her heart and don't think she would like anyone else to know. She told me she even told me things she had never told her boyfriend. Here is were it gets confusing. She tells me at this point that every minute thats she is with me she likes me and more and more and that this is bad because she is having the same feeling like she has with her boyfriend. I don't really listen to this because of my experience from my first nite. But I take a deep look into her eyes and she tells me "My body can lie but my eyes cannot". And man her eyes didn't lie. But then this is something I would learn from more experiences from BG is that they all know how to act very well and use eye contact to their advantage. But man right till the end her eyes could not lie to me. One more thing I forgot to mention was that when we were leaving Bangla at the end of the nite, we were walking past Soi Eric and they started to play this famous thai slow slong she stops me and starts singing to me while we slow danced right there in the street in front of Soi Eric in front of food vendors, and people walking by they must of thought we were crazy. This song will play a big role in my story since she would sing this song to me many times while she was with me. But its about a thai girl who meets a farang and then never sees her again. But for one night they have the time of their lives. The next day was weird. I never had a girl who had a boyfriend act like that towards me after two days and the fact that I paid her made it weird. For me made me feel like I bought a girlfriend. I know wut u guys are thinking thats the way it is dude. But remember I was a rookie. Some BG are very good at wut they do. They make u feel sooooo good so I can see why many many guys get suckered into falling for these gurls like I said before they are the best actresses. I wasn't gonna get fooled so I always had kept this in the back of my head the times she stayed with me. That day was great we spent time at the beach and she talked to me more about her life and her thoughts of life. Told me about the hundrend boyfriends she seemed to have. Seemed like she had a boyfriend from every country in the world. She then went on to explain to me how many many girls know how to play the game and get men to send them money. She told me many stories of different men and her many many relatioinship stories. How she has broken many mens hearts and also how she has played with them too. This is where the warning comes in for all u out there... U never know wut a BG true intentions are, I don't care if you read a book, or even if you've lived there for a long time, u still never know... only way u know you have a BG for sure is if you are there source of income. If you are the one providing for her and her family then you have it locked down. Like I said before number one to BG is money. In my head tho I wanted to see if true love could overcome this money situation. We just hit it off. I guess you guys get it. I've had many relationships back at home but this was just a weird feeling I had towards this woman. It is very true once you go asian you never go caucasian. But this doesn't go for all asian gurls i mean i've had asian gurls here back at home that are gorgeous but not the same as Thai Gurls. They know how to treat a man. This gurl would make sure everything was ok with me b4 she could relax. For example with eating she would make sure I was happy first even if my food didn't come she would feed me some of her food. Later on she would eventually cook for me. They always are willing to do wutever makes you happy. I could go on forever about this but all you guys know wut I mean. So now being back home its almost impossible to even think about having a relationship with a gurl at home cuz they just don't compare. All the women out here want want want, and never give. Thai girls are the total opposite in a sense. The only thing they want is money. If they don't ask for it then they just want to be taken care of but unfortunately the only way to take care of them is thru money. But they will take care of you like no other woman in the world can. Back to my story. So that nite now she surprised me and took me to this nice restaurant on the beach to have a candle lit dinner since she knew I liked candle light dinners. It's gone now but it was just up the road from all the major hotels on beach road. It was beautiful it had a beautiful view of Patong beach and Karon. That night we did what we do back at here on nice dinners. We went thru a bottle of red wine with our dinner. We both got really really loaded. We started both saying stupid things to each other. I started complaining how she had a boyfriend and couldn't understand how can u be with me like this and tell me the things she told me if she had these feelings towards another man. She would tell me how she wanted to meet her boyfriend who was to arrive in less then a week. And how she hoped we could become friends. Thats when I told her that back at my home we don't do things like that. I told her that if I liked a girl I wouldn't go off and meet her bf and try to be his buddy. She didn't understand that and said if you like me then u'll meet my boyfriend. Thats when I said you know wut we've only known each other for 2 days. Let's just leave this in the past. Anyway I had in my head that i wanted to as you guys say butterfly so I really didn't care in a way. But part of me had fallen for this gurl, hard to explain but it was something about her or it was everything about her. I said I would never see her again so not to worry, and when her boyfriend came she wouldn't care anyway. Then she goes that she liked me and wanted me to still be her friend. We finished dinner and started walking to the motorbike when I just finally said let's just finish this nite and u'll never have to see me again. Out of nowhere she starts crying. I go y u crying she says cuz she likes me and also that she is really really drunk and doesn't want us to end like this. I'm like we've been together two days. So wutever we go home that nite and in the next day we ate together and she stayed untill 3 p.m. most long time ends around 9 - 10 a.m. I learned that later on in my trip. To show I was no cheap charlie I gave her an extra 2000 baht and told her that was for her family. And she asked me if I was sure she wanted me to go. I was like yah. I walked her to her bike and she wanted a kiss and a hug. I wouldn't give it to her cuz I was still pissed about this whole boyfriend situation. She goes "Will I see you again" i go we'll see, maybe. I was an asshole. That night I went out back to Patong. But was not in the mood to takin another BG home at this point. So had a couple drinks at a few bars and talked and made some friends with a few BG at a few different beer bars. The next morning I woke up and started which girl I should take for the nite. I had met a few the previous night. Then I started thinking why don't I give this gurl a second chance. As I was thinking that I started goin thru my pouch which i carried all my id's and money. I look in it I see her ID. She had given it to me the night b4 to carry for her since she was wearing a dress and carried no purse. Here is when i started to think did this girl purposely do this or was this an accident. Regardless I had to go see her again since i felt bad because I know from a first hand experience that if you get a 300 baht fine. I had gotten one the day before. One of many fines I got in Phuket. So that night I go to down to Bangla and I say to myself if this girl is free then it was meant for me to take her again. I show up and first thing she asks is for her ID which i gave her. So I started to think man maybe she did do this on purpose. But then she showed me how she applied for another one so right there I knew she didn't. She told me how she thought she would never see me again. I asked her if she was busy tonite. She said maybe she said that she had a couple of men that she wanted to take her and she pointed to two men sitting on opposite sides of the bar. I go to her wut if I said I want to take you till your boyfriend comes back. She didn't even hesitate and said yes. I paid barfine and told her to meet me at my place. That was a Tuesday night her boyfriend was to come that weekend. She was to stay with me till the day before he arrived since he arrived early in the morning she could get things prepared for her boyfriend. They rented a place I will not be specific because this might start to give too much detail and might start identifying ourselves. Lets just say it was an apartment in Patong. He was to stay lets just say longer than I was going to stay in Phuket.
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18-01-2005, 22:19
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So the next few days together were just some of the best times I've had in my life. Our days were spent having the time of our lives, we did everything we could together. Shopping, sightseeing, night markets, boom boom and all. We would have the best meals together. She loved it because we would go to a thai restaurant and I would let her order. I didn't care I told her I would eat wutever she ordered. (Note: if you want to win a thai gurls heart this is something u gotta do. Eat thai food and eat wut they eat. This will come to play more at the end of my story). We would eat lunches right beside the beach on karon, kata or patong. Dinners would always be out on a patio underneath the stars. To a westerner like me this was a big deal because we don't get that too often out here. Usually too cold or too crowded. Many motorbike rides around Phuket she would show me all Phuket had to offer. For those that haven't seen a sunset from, man i forget the name of that place Pha or Phang something i forget, that is beautiful. At night we would first always sit at different beer bars she would introduce me to her friends and we would all drink together she even introduced me to her ladyboy friends who were all very nice. Then we would dance the night away at either Tiger, Banana, Tai Pan, or Dragon. Or even all 4 of them. One of the nights she tells me that she's not used to a young guy like me that can party the night away and was starting like me even more and more. Most BG's are used to the old boring men who just sit at the bar or even just sit at home and drink the night away she says. She ended up staying with me right till the morning she had to pick up her boyfriend. She litterally left my place went home to drop her stuff off and change then went straight to the airport to pick him up. Before she left she never asked for money but I felt obliged to pay so i gave her 9000 baht for those days. To show her once again I was no cheap charlie. On the last day she said she wanted to still see me while her boyfriend was around not for money but for feeling as she would say. She goes u gotta get a thai cell phone tho. Here is a great idea and a must for all those stayin in Thailand for a long time. Getting a thai cell phone was awesome I used it to give my number to all the gurls they would text me and call me constantly. But more than anything to keep in touch with my Tilak. I will stop here again take a break and move on to part 3 later on. I still have to get to the tsunami part and how we kept a relationship while her boyfriend was in town. Then bangkok and more BG's. Tell me wut u guys think.
Last edited by Lion : 18-01-2005 at 22:38.
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18-01-2005, 22:26
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Andy 50,
You are so right these beautiful girls i get here back at home end up costing me more than a BG anyway. Takin them out for dinner out here costs alone like 3000 baht. Then having to buy them stuff is ridiculous they always want want want. And the things they want are always the most expesive shit. So really u r correct and another reason why thai women are much better than western women. Oh and that was 3000 for the two nights so 1500 baht a night. Also I have nothing against old, fat, men. Its just to illustrate my story. Last edited by Lion : 18-01-2005 at 22:31.
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18-01-2005, 22:35
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Interesting story! But "many" mistakes my friend (like we all do btw)
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That how you make prices getting up! For a bG, never more then 1000! You pay food, wine, amusement.... I like these girls to have it good too, no problem! But spoil them too much..... If I have LT, several days, I prefer to buy them a t-shirt, jeans, bikini.... But never more then 1000 Bath! I am very curious how your story is going on! Iwould never see a girl who has another customer, boyfriend or not!
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19-01-2005, 02:20
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Tintin - am I right in thinking you once gave a girl 15,000 baht so she could get a motorbike ?
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19-01-2005, 02:30
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Great story Lion I have 16 days till my 2nd trip and I fell for an absolute asweetheart on my first trip who unfortunatley will not be ther when i go back but they truly are amazing people!!!!! Just makes what happened since Boxing Day so sad!!!!
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19-01-2005, 02:37
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Absolutely right that is! If you did not know this by now, I wonder where you been! It was the first Thai girl I ever been with! She was NOT a bg and I fell in love with her like an idiot! If you count the time she has been with me, that I never had to pay for, the 15.000 bath spend on her bike, would just cover the cost of a bg for that period!  And.... once that story was over (she btw never lied, she did buy the bike to go to her new job, at the airport), and just did only bg's, I never ever payed more then 1000. But like I also said : "we all make mistakes, certainly in the beginning"!
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19-01-2005, 03:00
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Fair enough Usually we learn the hard way. From what I saw this trip, there is going to be a lot of broken hearts in the future.
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19-01-2005, 03:14
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I think a new motorbike is about 40,000, nŽest ce pas ? Good girls allways want a new one. But I never PAID her more than 1000 per night. Ok, a gold chain will cost you about 10,000, and a bracelet the same. This is insurance for bad days. Last edited by gregor200 : 19-01-2005 at 03:18.
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