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Old 12-04-2005, 20:56
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I tried reading your posts but only get a bit into them and then get bored to tears,why woffle on again and again about the same old stuff.............if you like it do it ,if you don`t then don`t---simple!!!!!
Now you`ve got sxygirl in this post,it`s kool but twice now i `ve heard sexygirl say she is now cumming in december,if I can offer advice to both of you it would be please tell us something interesting,funny,witty or even true.........
Sxygirl I would advise you to not say you are cumming again,er coz look what happened last time you said it.........walk the walk and stop talking the talk
jeeeezus by december who knows what other reason you`ll have for not cumming
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Dang moo? It wasnt daeng moo = red pork.....

Deang moo is red pig

Dang Moo = watermelon.. IIRC she said the TG's christened her that cause of cup size..
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Had to leave with? Who FORCED the women to go with the men? Are the women not getting something out of it? How many Thai BG have 2 or 3 men overseas sending them money, while they are working another "fat" or "rich" falang.


It does not make it any less repulsive to me. I am not saying they are not getting anything from it, I am saying I put myself in their shoes and think of what they need to do next when I see them leaving and think how I would feel...they can do it. I couldn't for example be a masseuse either as I would be disgusted touching someone with nasty skin...perhaps I am more squeamish in that sense, but that is just me. As for the men, if they send these girls money that is on them as well.






Frankly, your statement of "disgusted, literally sick", smacks of bitterness to me.


Bitter from what? I am expressing how distasteful it would be for me to have to go shag some of these blokes and how it makes me feel. They are doing a job, and whether you like it or not if pickings are slim they need to feed themselves, and it makes me ill to see some of the men they need to shag. I saw a man about 70 weighing about 150 kilos leaving with a girl who looked like she could be his granddaghter and was tiny tiny....am I not aloud to feel disgust? Would you not sometimes look at a girl leaving with a bloke and say. "oh damn that is nasty"...it is human.
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I find all this talk about how disgusting old people are to be somewhat disturbing to me. It smacks of ageism. To be worthy of someone's attention and care, must one one be young and beautiful? Do you feel sorry for the woman, when you see a fat old man walk down the street with his fat old wife, and think about what she may do with him in bed? Do you feel sorry for him as well, since he also sleeps with an old, wrinkled lady? Is it some kind of sin these days to get old? We will all be old someday. You talk as if that fact never occurred to you. Is there no beauty and worthiness in people but that which we can see with our eyes, and touch with our hands?

I understand your reaction, because once when I came late to a bar to see a pretty young BG, she had given up on me, and went with an old, fat, and quite ugly man who had been buying her drinks for several days, at least, ever since the night I met her, and took her away from him. They had just walked out of the bar when I approached. I spoke with her. She was quite pleased to be going with him, had a big smile, was very relaxed, and not at all disgusted, or disappointed that she missed her chance with me, a much younger, fitter, and better looking man than the one she was with. Not that she wouldn't have went with me, had I been more punctual, but she had no qualms about going with him, and didn't see anything disgusting about it at all. She said she liked him, and was looking forward to spending the evening with him.

I thought about it. There are two ways to look at it. 1)be disgusted 2)accept that not everyone shares that reaction, and isn't it a wonderful world, where even a fat, ugly, old man can find a pretty young lady to take his arm, and walk out of the bar, with a glowing smile on her face, quite pleased with his company and not at all trepiditious about the events the night will bring later on(going to bed with him). Is it a terrible thing that he can find such pleasure and comfort in his declining years? Or is it a wonderful thing, that there are young ladies such as Oh, who are pleased to be in his company for the evening?

If everyone was so easily disgusted, where would we get surgeons, podiatrists, emergency room nurses and doctors, etc.? I have numerous times talked to young women in the US who work in old age homes, performing chores such as changing soiled sheets, among other tasks, who tell me how delighted they are to work with the old people and how good it makes them feel to share time with the aged and listen to their stories. And I have spoken to a few BGs who said they prefer to go with old men, for whatever reason. Thank God that we have people such as these. They are wonderful human beings!

On a recent visit to see my old mother, she was limping, and complained that her feet hurt her. I often give women foot massages, and thought about offering to do so for her. I looked at her feet. Disgusting! I thought. Old, rough, wrinkled, and a little bit scaly, with years of callouses, bunions and the like. She had a bacterial infection on one foot, that the doctors and nurses treating her had been unable to heal. Her nurse treated and dressed it in bandages each day, but there had been no improvement in over a month. She was depressed and felt that it would never heal. When I removed the dressing, it was an ugly sight, and my mind recoiled. But then I thought, she's your mother, for Christ's sake, have a little mercy! So I took her feet in my hands, and massaged them, not just as lovingly as I would for a pretty woman, but more so, because she is my mother. And I found a remarkable thing happened. I wasn't disgusted at all. Once I got used to the feel of her feet, I found it quite pleasant to massage them, and when she smiled at me, I felt better than if it had been a beautiful young woman whose feet I was massaging. I went to a health food store and bought some golden seal and myrhh, put it in a large pot of hot water and bathed the infection with it every day, twice a day, and afterwards gave her a foot massage. When I left to return to my home a week later, she was walking without a limp, and thanked me for my efforts. The infection was almost completely healed and not long afterwards, she told me that all signs of the infection were gone and her feet felt well again. That was a lesson for me that I won't soon forget.

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Old 13-04-2005, 00:18
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eurogirl, u r obviously far more educated, reasonable, mature etc. than MOST of these guys, staring at the comp. screen is not good for your beautiful eyes and these F***ers who talk down to u like this and are just getting off on THINKING that they are upsetting u are simply not worth anymore of ur precious time. I know a beautiful thai boy for u....his name is nikki (niko?) one of the two anyhow, he is the brother of the woman named Lita who owns the bluestar bar in soi seapearl. bluestar is the 2nd or 3rd bar on the right side when u first walk into soi seapearl. he is tall and about 26 or 27 by now (i met him when i lived there in 2002) he has the most amazing cheek bones and smile, he's perfect. and for the record asian men do NOTHING for me, so obviously he is very, very, very pretty. Tell him dang-moo (that was my thai name the bluestar staff gave me) says hello and see him in december.

in your treadd - stupygirl is cumming - you asked all the questions , like were to go and what to do.
now i must find out that you were allready here, what you try to do
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Old 13-04-2005, 00:24
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Yeah you missed the fact that she was here before with her (then) boyfriend.. IIRc 3 months or so...

Never made a secret of it.. Never tried to hide or change it...

Seems to me some people just want to jump on bandwagons or be part of the herd..
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Jesus Christ was a humble man. He demonstrated his humility when he got down on his knees and washed the feet of a lowly woman, some say a *****, Mary Magadalene. Did Jesus Christ show weakness when he performed that act? I think not. I think he showed his strength.

What do you think, Liam? Do you think Jesus Christ was a submissive person? After all, he did submit to a lot of torture and abuse at the hands of the Roman soldiers who crucified him(see M. Gibson's film, "The Passion of the Christ.") Or do you think it was a matter of Jesus HUMBLY accepting his fate, or as he put, accepting the will of his father, to whom he ceded his power. Jesus was undoubtedly a powerful man(see Bible re miracles), some say he is God. He had the power to stop the Romans, but he didn't. Why? He possessed incredible, God-like strength(perhaps because he is God), enough strength to give up his power, and accept his fate with HUMILITY. You didn't see him kicking and screaming and cursing the Romans or protesting his innocence, either. That's HUMILITY.

Buddha would have been proud of him! In fact, he probably was proud of him. And they probably had a beer together after it was all over!

You're starting to spout a load of shit again jaybee.

You want to be careful when you start on about who is submissive (and who might be dominant!), and also telling Liam he has a lot to learn about women and life !

Who's head was it that was in bits on his last tour?
Who got played like a fiddle?
Liam might be young, but hes not daft.

A lot of peoples views on here come from having some bad experiences with falang women.

Personally, I dont think we look at the thai girls in a 'slave and master' way.

I think that a lot of men try to 'give' to their falang partners, but get shunned and wore down.
When they/we go to thailand, we are not there as 'masters' but we just appreciate that girls are doing some nice things for us that we have missed for a long time. We try to make them feel nice, they try to make us feel nice, instead of it being a one way street.

p.s. I doubt Buddha 'had a beer' just after Jesus had been nailed by the Romans.
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You're starting to spout a load of shit again jaybee.


Hey Mikey

What do you mean starting to again. When did I ever stop?

Give me a little kiss, Mikey!
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You're starting to spout a load of shit again jaybee.

You want to be careful when you start on about who is submissive (and who might be dominant!), Personally, I dont think we look at the thai girls in a 'slave and master' way.

I think that a lot of men try to 'give' to their falang partners, but get shunned and wore down.
When they/we go to thailand, we are not there as 'masters' but we just appreciate that girls are doing some nice things for us that we have missed for a long time. We try to make them feel nice, they try to make us feel nice, instead of it being a one way street.

Thanks for backing me up this one, Mikey! You reiterate the point I was making exactly.

Liam referred to Thai women as "like slaves, and not respected human beings," and said that Thai women relate to men as their superiors. Liam said that Thai women are submissive. Eurogirl specifically stated that Thai men and women are subservient and that "TGs and boys come from a more submissive culture." I disagreed with them. I'm totally with you on this, Mikey! No argument there, as we seem to share a similar view!

Thanks again, Mikey!

P.S. Have you had your glasses checked lately, Mike!
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p.s. I doubt Buddha 'had a beer' just after Jesus had been nailed by the Romans.

Gee, Mikey, lighten up, guy. Sit back, relax, put your feet up, set a spell. How's things at work? Job getting to you!

You USED to be a funny guy!
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Gee, Mikey, lighten up, guy. Sit back, relax, put your feet up, set a spell. How's things at work? Job getting to you!

You USED to be a funny guy!

1) The 'spouting shit' reference was for the waffling religious sermon.

2) I wasnt backing you up at all. The submissive and dominant reference was with regards to YOUR antics. That girl wasnt being submissive, YOU were being dominant.

3) I am sitting back, im relaxed, and my feet are up in front of the fire, and my mood is very light.

4) If I USED to be a funny guy, then one thing is for certain, you have NEVER been a funny guy. I cant think of one thing you have wrote in your reams and reams of tedious ramblings that has made me laugh.

Of course you will laugh, and 'thank me' for making such valid points. Its all you can do, because if what you did with that girl is 100% true, then one day I hope you wake up and realise the enormity of what you did.
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1) The 'spouting shit' reference was for the waffling religious sermon.

2) I wasnt backing you up at all. The submissive and dominant reference was with regards to YOUR antics. That girl wasnt being submissive, YOU were being dominant.

3) I am sitting back, im relaxed, and my feet are up in front of the fire, and my mood is very light.

4) If I USED to be a funny guy, then one thing is for certain, you have NEVER been a funny guy. I cant think of one thing you have wrote in your reams and reams of tedious ramblings that has made me laugh.

Of course you will laugh, and 'thank me' for making such valid points. Its all you can do, because if what you did with that girl is 100% true, then one day I hope you wake up and realise the enormity of what you did.

Mikey,

Mikey you're mood is not very light. You have major psychological problems. You say in a recent post that "we just appreciate that girls are doing some nice things for us which we have missed for a long time." When is the last time that a girl did anything nice for you, Mikey. Remember, that it is your contention that the only thing that matters is the "judder" you get when some LB suck the juice from your prunes. All else in relations with the opposite sex(or in your case, the same sex), is meaningless, according to you and the girls are all just interchangeable parts. And the LBs can be substituted for the girls and it makes no matter. Only the judder counts! That is your sick and sorry philosophy on life my friend. You will never in your life have a meaningful relationship with a woman or a LB. YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT. When is your next appointment with the shrink? You are long overdue!

Your failure to be able to find amusement in anything I have ever said further reflects the sick obssession you have with me. You are very sick, my friend, and not getting any better. my advice to you is that you should seek good qualified professional help immediately!

I reiterate: You used to have a sense of humor. If you find any of your recent posts full of drivel and vague reminiscences humorous, then you are seriously in denial.

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Talking Rx: One Chill Pill with Cold Pint Of Draft Ale, ASAP!

One other thing, Mikey! Don't be gullible! Don't believe everything you read. It is not good for your blood pressure, my friend!

Have a cold one and chill out!


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Say something funny, Mikey! I dare you! I double dare you!

Uh-huh, you can't do it! I told you so! Try taking a class at clown college! You'll fit right in. You won't need a costume!


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Say something funny, Mikey! I dare you! I double dare you!

Uh-huh, you can't do it! I told you so! Try taking a class at clown college! You'll fit right in. You won't need a costume!


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Hard lines Coco,

I have a regular GIRL that I see in the UK, and she did plenty nice things for me a few days ago.

As for don't believe everything I read, then why would you want to write such a 'story' as you did? What did you think we would get out of reading about you and 'Leroy' forcing your way into a woman who said 'no' repeatedly whether it be fact or fiction ?

I personally wouldnt entertain a relationship in Thailand as I think a large proportion of girls are just stringing you along . Your constant ramblings about your abnam and massage habits, mixed with this fixation about a bar girl showed only too clearly she was taking the piss out of you. I fcuk the ladyboys because it is a 'judder' only transaction. You got involved, and you got told from people close to you to be careful. You weren't mixing fact with fiction in your reports. You were replaying every detail in your mind. Re-living it in the chair in the internet shop. THAT is why you got told of another board member to change the names.

As far as psycholigical problems go, im second in the queue to you, and i would be in the waiting room a long time.

I think you will find I have never had so much animosity towards anyone on this forum. Infact you are probably the ONLY person I have animosity towards, due to what you did. Its not a sick obsession. Its realising that YOU did something of your own admission which I find disgusting.

Its as simple as this -

1) You forced that girl into having sex when she said 'No' repeatedly OR
2) You WROTE A STORY about forcibly having sex with that girl. If THIS is the truth, then WHY did you write such a thing without EVER mentioning in your ramblings that you were mixing fact with fiction.

If I am a clown, then at least I might make a few people happy.

You just make me sad.
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Mikey,

Congratulations on having a girlfriend! I am duly impressed. She must be a real piece of work!

As for what I wrote, I owe you no explanation! I have explained to those who I deemed worthy of an explanation. You are not among that number!

BTW, my gullible friend, who believes all he reads when it suits his purposes. I remind you that you told me that it was all in my head when you deemed that to be the best mode for an attack on me. Then you reversed ground and suddenly everything I said had to true when that suited your purposes.

You, Sir, are a duplicitous cad and a sneaky bastard, as well, since you waited and waited to post for hours late into the night in England, until I was off line, so that others could read your the tripe that your poisoned mind excretes, before I could respond to it.

I said it before and I will say it again. You have an unhealthy obssession with me, my friend. What is the truth? Why are you obsessed with me? Your attacks on me began well before any questionable posts on my part.

You say "she was taking the piss out of" me, whatever that means. Quite frankly, I have no idea, nor do I care to know your opinion. Nonetheless, what is this abiding interest that you have in my love life. You made that statement well before any of your current claims. Don't deny it. Don't be a liar as well as the sick bastard that you are! So what is this sick interest in my personal life, my friend! I could speculate, but I really don't care to insult you further, because the truth might hit too close to home.

For the record, as far as any actions on my part. My conscience is clear, because I did nothing wrong. The fact is that I always treated women with respect. I always have and always will. Admit it, that is one of the things that you dislike about me. The worst thing I did to a woman was the night I asked a woman who appeared to be ill to leave, because I didn't want to possibly have to pay her 2000 Baht in the morning as agreed upon, when I might not have sex with her at all. And I still feel bad about that. but was I criticized for that. Not one negative comment, and a number of posts that said I did the right thing to throw her out, that I was a very proper bastard to do so.

I have no 3-day rule. I have been criticized for being a romantic. I don't discard a woman the first time I might have feelings for her stir within me. I have been criticized for not dumping a woman that I liked. I have been criticized for buying drinks for her friends. I have been criticized for having a relationship at all. Guilty of breaking the 3-day rule! A heinous offense. I have been criticized for not being enough of a bastard! Guilty as charged my friend, and proud of it! Guilty of having a heart.

No one will ever accuse you of not being enough of a bastard. You are the bastard's bastard. A bastard supreme!

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Hi Mikey! Tell Us A Joke!

Hey Mikey,

Where's that sense of humor, Mikey. Why so glum? Life is a blast! Join the party.

Tell us a joke, Mikey. Where is the old the fabled Dirty Mike sense of humor? You can do it, Mikey. We are all rooting for you to make a comeback!

I'll try to see of I can help you. Think FARTS! Come on, Mikey. That is your specialty. You must have a good fart joke that you haven't used lately. C'mon, Mikey old pal, old bastard. We don't believe you're over the hill yet. Just go to the bathroom, sit on the toilet and do what you do best(if you did it before you posted, it would save us listening to a load of shite! ). I'm sure if you apply yourself properly, you can get that devilish mind putting out the gas again. Think FARTS, Mikey. It is your specialty! FARTS!

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Hi Mikey,

Couldn't think of a good joke, yet! Oh,well, don't feel bad. We still love you. You are a legend in your own time. Just like Bob Dylan, over the hill at 34. But he had a brief comeback. What was the tune? Oh, yeah. "Sick of Love." Must of had you in mind when he penned that one. At least the sick part. I don't think you have the foggiest notion of what love is about! "

Judder," that's what you said love is about, IIRC. Tell us about the judder again, Uncle Mikey. We want to hear about the judder. By the way, I've never heard that word before. It isn't in the dictionary. What does it mean? Share your deep wisdom with us once more, please. And don't leave out the part about the ladyboys f*cking you up the ****. That was the funny part. Did you like it that way, Mikey?


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I find all this talk about how disgusting old people are to be somewhat disturbing to me. It smacks of ageism. To be worthy of someone's attention and care, must one one be young and beautiful? Do you feel sorry for the woman, when you see a fat old man walk down the street with his fat old wife, and think about what she may do with him in bed? Do you feel sorry for him as well, since he also sleeps with an old, wrinkled lady? Is it some kind of sin these days to get old? We will all be old someday. You talk as if that fact never occurred to you. Is there no beauty and worthiness in people but that which we can see with our eyes, and touch with our hands?




It is realism not ageism and it works both ways. When I see an old couple it is beautiful, they obviously have been in love and grown old together, love conquers a lot and to spend ones life with someone is a lot different than spending a night with that person. Women have always been discarded when they get older, spend tons of money on products and therapies to stay young, not only in the west but in Thailand too. For a long time older men could get away with getting old and still pulling because in the west we once also had a society similar to Thailand does now where money and financial security were placed on a higher value. Anyone who says they looked at Anna Nicole Smith and said. "Oh isn't that lovely she is in love with that very old man, it's beautiful" is fooling themselves. You're also fooling yourself if you do not see a clear cut double standard even here on this board. I like younger guys, and fortunatelty can pull them, but I am referred to as "an old slapper" "old enough to be his mum" etc. At the same time the overreaction to my postings alluding to bad looks or age having a big part of the bg scene and the necessity for it is met with defensiveness and anger...why, because men do not like being judged on the same premises they judge women. How many of these men come here and go off with the older bgs? The fat bgs? The wrinkled bgs?

Your last line, "is there no worthiness..." is a beautiful line but completely irrelevant to the bg scene. I do not think either party is looking that deep. I also think that in a true love situation people are often surprised as to what they love and who they end up with and what reasons they end up with that person. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that saying is very true as someone I find attractive may not appeal to anyone else at all and vice versa.





I thought about it. There are two ways to look at it. 1)be disgusted 2)accept that not everyone shares that reaction, and isn't it a wonderful world, where even a fat, ugly, old man can find a pretty young lady to take his arm, and walk out of the bar, with a glowing smile on her face, quite pleased with his company and not at all trepiditious about the events the night will bring later on(going to bed with him). Is it a terrible thing that he can find such pleasure and comfort in his declining years? Or is it a wonderful thing, that there are young ladies such as Oh, who are pleased to be in his company for the evening?




Again, she is getting paid for it. It is her job and I have noticed Thais do their jobs with 110% of their heart. I can be disgusted but I accept that it goes on. I wonder on the other hand how you, or many men would feel, to see a fit young Thai man walking out of a bar with a women twic his size weighing three or four times as much and wrinkled from head to toe in the same situation? Would you really still think it was so beautiful? Or perhaps would you accept it happens but think how fortunate you are that you do not have to do that? How many old ladies have you slept with Jaybee?




Finally, your story about your mother is heartwarming, but look at your first reaction. Also, she is your mother, there is a different and long standing bond. I also agree that it is great that not everyone is easily disgusted. I think prostitutes fit into a category with the likes of people that work in old age homes, nurses, podiatrists etc. They perform a service not many people can handle. In Amsterdam I knew a guy who was so unattractive that most people found it unappetising. I had a lot of sympathy for the fact that he likely would never have sex if not for prostitutes....but everyone I knew joked about the "poor prostitutes" that had to service him. This is the niche that prostitution fills nicely though.

I also want to say, that for me a lot of why I like much younger guys and asian men has to do with the above and the double standard I mentioned. In the west many guys my age do not take care of their bodies, get very hairy, have beer bellies or are just overweight and out of shape, yet they still believe it is their right to be with attractive fit women. If I am going to stay in shape I want my partner to do the same and I want a physical standard to be equal to that I hold myself to.
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