South Pattaya Girl

[princetontiger9]

Was in South Pattaya for two weeks.. Visited some great bars and spent time with some great ladies. A couple of nights before I headed home back to the states I visted a bar called Three Ladies Bar in South Pattaya. It was a wonderful two weeks until that night.

I bought a few drinks and had good chats with the girls. There were about 10 girls working there that night. About 6 of them were real young knock outs! The other four looked a little worn out.. Well I think I should have taken my chances with the older gals. I paid the barkeep the fee and took out one her younger girls. Went back to my hotel the Asia Pattaya, its a great hotel by the way..

Well we came back to the hotel and even on the way back I got a funny feeling about this girl... She was quiet and not very talkative... After a few drinks we got into it.. She was so tense and quiet but this girl was so cute... And then she started!! Started to cry and ranting in Thai.. Then in her poor English started to tell me about her bar life and family and how she wanted me to take her with me.. I feared first of all with all the noise people would come in thinking I was attacking this girl... We acutally got into it a while later after some more drinks I was about to give her some money and send her on her way.. But I had paid her enough for the whole night.. Wanted to get my moneys worth that last night... and I did.. But afterwards felt really bad.. I guess she zoned out and got back into it.. Kind of the same way I zoned out and tried not to think about what she said before..

First time I had a bad experience with a girl there... I wonder what shes doing now...

What would you have done?? Try to keep going with the girl like I did... or have the girl leave for the night

[LivinLOS]

How about being slightly sympathetic understanding and nice !! Listen to her, connect to her as a human being !!

'Pay her off' or 'keep going' and force yourself on an unwilling partner..

Christ no wonder these girls go nuts !!!

[stevem]

Originally Posted by princetontiger9

What would you have done?? Try to keep going with the girl like I did... or have the girl leave for the night

Let her go, my god "I paid so I am getting my monies worth", what an arrogant way to think about it. Why even bother asking this, you must know your going to get negative feedback, or perhaps thats what your looking for.

[Devman]

I would have given her some money and let her leave. I would hate to put anyone through duress.
I certainly wouldn't have made sure "I got my monies worth" I think it's called respect.

[LivinLOS]

take pictures ??

[stevem]

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[butterflyblonde]

Although I don't disagree with you guys that the attitude is not good 'I paid so I want my money's worth'

Who's to say this girl wasn't putting on a act ? After all, so many of them learn this from very early on, usually passed on to them by bg's in the biz for longer.

Called me a sceptic but that's probably the truth of the matter.

[Captain]

Take your loss and cut. What is the use taking somebody who doesn't want to go with you? You won't get any fun out of it. If you want you can give her some extra (not ST or LT) and say byebye. Then if you are still horny look for another one.
If you have good hart, you can take care of her.
A few years ago, a friend and I met a girl just starting in a bar we often went in Soi Eric. She worked there a week and had been with one farang, after that she had to go to the doctor and couldn't work for 3 day. She didn't tell us that, but a staffmember, not the Thai lady owner of the bar. The girl wanted to go back home and even phoned if she could go back to school. We barfined her and paid the bustrip back to Issan, plus some travel money. Next day she left. She phoned my friend, speacking Thai and living in Phuket that she was back home. Never seen her again.

[butterflyblonde]

A agree with you there Captain.

I think PrincetonTiger made some fundamental errors to be honest.

After all...

Originally Posted by princetontiger9

Well we came back to the hotel and even on the way back I got a funny feeling about this girl... She was quiet and not very talkative...

This should be a major warning sign to anyone mongering in los that all is not well with a girl and the chances are, she could be new and naive, just not into you, wishing she was somewhere else (like with thai bf) etc..etc..

I also think he said he paid her in advance ? Not a wise move if he did, that's not how things operate in los, this ain't the west.

Of course, some of the comments before are about showing some heart, I do agree with that to a large extent and perhaps she was genuinely upset, afraid or whatever.

But on the other side of the coin they are not put there by force, they chose to become bg's and the job entails 'entertaining farang', goes with the territory so I guess this is why the OP is confused about her behaviour.

There was a time when I bf'ed 2 girls from Peppermint and I made this same classic mistake. I really fancied 1 girl who promised to go with me, later she got a call from her sponsor, had just arrived in town 'apparently'

She apolgised then pointed one of her friends out who was pretty good looking also, so I went along with it. A short while later she came back and said she had another friend too who would be willing to come along and I thought 'what the hell'. This 2nd friend turned out to be a nervous girl with a face like thunder, this was more apparent as the night went on however.

So, barfined paid we skipped off back to the Sandy spring, I had noticed girl number 2 was quiet in the bar and all the way back to the room while the other one was happy and chatty with me, friendly too.
I stupidly ignored the signs and my instincts, should have cancelled the deal back in the GG bar but I was horny and up for the 3 some.

This girl #2 was probably nervous, possible new to the scene and perhaps having second thoughts about a 3 some, she looked even more miserable back at the room so being kind hearted, I told her nevermind and kindly gave her half the usual 2k going rate for WS Agogo girls, as no sex had taken place I could have told her to 'do one' without paying anything but I'm not like that and she looked relieved to be let off the hook and have 1k in her hand to boot.

The other girl turned out to the great though, so the night was not a loss..in fact she was insatiable and very accomodating


But I think in the case of Princeton Tiger...

He should not pay up front, always in the morning or after the short time deal.

Should have given her a smaller amount of baht, if 1K was agreed (beer bar girl) then 2 - 300 baht and send her on her way would have been fairly generous considering she was not 'up for it' and providing no sex has taken place, some men would tell her to sling her hook, epsecially some of the pattaya regulars who don't stand for any messing.

He should have then gone back out on the hunt for a girl happy to be with him and do 'the biz', you can usually tell if a girl is showing interest in you or not within an hour or 2 of sitting with her, the signs are there for us all to see.

That's what I would do anyway, if put in his situation or bringing 1 girl back who is clearly not wanting to be there, I would not bother to have sex with her, just close the deal, tell her no problem or nevermind and find another.

[jesper_dk]

Originally Posted by Captain

Take your loss and cut. What is the use taking somebody who doesn't want to go with you? You won't get any fun out of it. If you want you can give her some extra (not ST or LT) and say byebye. Then if you are still horny look for another one.
If you have good hart, you can take care of her.
A few years ago, a friend and I met a girl just starting in a bar we often went in Soi Eric. She worked there a week and had been with one farang, after that she had to go to the doctor and couldn't work for 3 day. She didn't tell us that, but a staffmember, not the Thai lady owner of the bar. The girl wanted to go back home and even phoned if she could go back to school. We barfined her and paid the bustrip back to Issan, plus some travel money. Next day she left. She phoned my friend, speacking Thai and living in Phuket that she was back home. Never seen her again.

I think that it´s up to each one of us how to deal with the issue to pay a girl for sex.....And i belive and hope that most of the BM`S is like..I have never forced or talked a BG into sex if she din´t want it even that i have paid their barfine and even the 1-1,5 k, ,because you never have good sex if you have to force someone to do the deed....i know that this thread have been up on the board so many times so i don´t know why its still comming up....
Please behave and take good care of the girls you barfine because it´s their job and they just try to make a living..
jesper_dk

[Paddy]

Let the poor girl go, I say.

You wouldn't have a great time anyway, would you? I mean, they're ******s and all that, as we all know. Even so, many of them get into it and enjoy the time you spend with them, as long as you treat them with a bit of respect and affection. But if they're having a really bad time and they're obviously not happy, what's in it for you?

If you've done this before, you would have your radar developed and you'd know if she was bullshitting or not. If you think her story is genuine, let her go and give her the money - and wish her luck. If you think she's spinning you a yarn, just give her some taxi fare.

In either case, I don't think there's any point at all in making her do the business.

[marc26]

i think the original poster just didnt put it the right way when writing the post.
reading it it doesnt sound like he forced himself on her
that being said, i wouldnt have gone on if i didnt think the girl was into it

i had a similar situation, girl started crying as we are fooling around, pulls her "bf" pic out, says he dumped her. she was a nice kid, we were having a nice tims, i just talked to her alittle calmed her down, and after she was very appreciative. really nice girl