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24-04-2006, 02:30
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i have been going to LOS now for the past 23 years during a visit 4 years ago i met a girl in Hot Tuna bar and the usual hapenned a 200 bar fine and 1000 all night problem is when i was there in jan she said she would no longer ask me to pay the bf and no cost for all night now she phoned me tonight (going back JUNE 6th)and says she wants to stay the 10 nights im in Pattaya for free. I like this girl but have i given off the wrong vibes (never offered marraige nor sent any money to her)
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24-04-2006, 03:17
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24-04-2006, 03:18
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I gotta agree with SteveM.
You have been going to los for 23 yrs and you need to ask us the questions ? Shouldn't you be the one teaching us ? 
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24-04-2006, 03:20
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24-04-2006, 03:29
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Yes..absolutely. In fact I was reading a thread about this on another forum only yesterday, many expats saying how they are still learning after all those years. I blame the women
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24-04-2006, 03:53
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I'll take a guess. You don't say how old you are but if you have been going to Thailand for that long then you are not a kid. My guess would be the girl you have met is not a kid either. Maybe she has reached the end of the line as a bargirl, and senses that you have reached the end of the line as a monger, and sees you as compatible?
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24-04-2006, 08:00
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This could be the case SteveT but also to consider is the different perspective a bg here puts on her customers, 1 or 2 nights with a guy, you are just seen as work. If she has a good time, enjoys your company and you stay with her for longer, this usually means see now sees you as her boyfriend. She could still charge but if she also stops asking for money she is now seeing you as a longer term prospect or just simply likes you. She will continue working in your absence and also even whilst you are here if you are not with her but every other rule applies to you as you are now one of her boyfriends. If you fancy a gf experience with her again no probs, should not scare you, the only worry is you becoming emotionally attached, if this is not the case, ok. Stopping the relationship after you go is no problem, as no loss of face for her, stopping whilst here if you decided you didn't want it afterall might be a bigger problem. You have been coming for a lot of years, are very experienced but I do understand it is always nice to here others opinions to compare to your own thoughts.
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26-04-2006, 01:38
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dodger you are giving the advice i gave to mates who were going to LOS for the first time, but its good when you receive the same advice from someone else. i thought i had experienced it all before but it shows you those girls have a way off getting to you no matter how many times youve tasted there charms. the funny thing is i first went to LOS to escape a marraige
 has the little brown widow snared me  lol.
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26-04-2006, 02:00
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ive yet to meet one that will "get to me"! guess i got a diffrent attitute when it comes to b/g's
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