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how long you spend with a girl
how long does the average board member spend with a bg?
i personally like to shag around a bit then find a nice 1 for 5-6 days for relaxing with,but fit in short time sessions with others when possible.
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10-05-2004, 06:26
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Most I have stayed with one girl is two days - Nowadays I try and cut that out all togethor after recieving too much grief in another favourite area of mine...
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10-05-2004, 10:40
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9 years, and still going
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10-05-2004, 13:52
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I USUALLY BUTTERFLY.........
BUT MET A NICE LITTLE CUTIE AT XMAS..
SHE WAS THE RECEPTIONIST IN THE EXPAT HOTEL........
SO WHEN I GO BACK IN JULY .I MITE TRY AND STAY WITH HER.......
BUT THEN AGAIN.WHO KNOWS.........
JONNY..... 
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10-05-2004, 17:36
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normally no more than 2 days , but did met a nice girl who i did spend a lot longer with, hopefully she will still be there on a future tour as she was great fun to be with.
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13-05-2004, 02:18
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Butterfly
In the past i stayed long time with 2 different girls , actually stayed with them for the entire holiday , no butterfly , both ended unhappily , i just never listened to all the advice given on the web over and over by guys in the know , after a terrible 1st week last april with a lady i knew from 2 times before i have finally learned my lesson , the next 2 weeks were spent butterflying every day although i met one lovely young 21 year old who tayed with me 10 days , but only because i explained about my past in LOS and she understood that i aint gonna stay in heart break hotel no more , so i she said no problem to me playing around , one of the best girls i ever met , she even let me shag her mates 
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13-05-2004, 18:29
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hang ups & closet spring to mind
[quote=SafeAs]You sure it wasn`t a LB Butterfly?
Yeah , quite sure as all the women ive known have children and i dont think ladyboys are able to do that yet Safeas 
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14-05-2004, 16:29
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Depending on the girl:
from 1 night to my whole life....
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15-05-2004, 18:07
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exception
During my second trip I met a girl by the end of the holiday stayed with her for 5 days. Got back 2 months later stayed two weeks with her and the I got back and stayed three weeks with her. I hope if I go back end of this year I will see her again.
So you might call me a dumbo, but I only went to bed in Phuket, with one girl.
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15-05-2004, 18:29
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You are no dumbo
Hi Steven Eleven,
You definatley aren't a dumbo. I know a lot of guys who seem to stay with the same girl for a while.
If you have fun, you treat each other nice (no arguing or jealousy), and she is not trying to extract all your hard earned out of you, then there is nothing wrong with the same one.
The problems arise when all the silly stories come from the girls, and you know they are just taking the piss. Once you see these signs, then it should be time to trade in for another 'nearly new low mileage'  bar girl.
A lot of guys butterfly so they dont get to that stage. It all comes down to what is best for you. If you are the one in control, then it should always be great fun.
Adios
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16-05-2004, 12:53
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You Hit This One on The Head, Mike, as Usual
"If you are the one in control, then it should always be great fun."
The time(s) I've gotten in over my head with a Thai bg are when I've (mistakenly!) let her take the piss--and somehow managed to forget who is paying the tabs and who is on his bloody holiday!!! Fortunately, that didn't drag on too long b4 I wisened up on my own.
If only I had this board are prior to my first tour!
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Depends on the girl sometimes I can't wait to get rid of them the next morning the longest I ever spent was one week but I was still getting ST action. Usually I'll stay with one until I get sick of her, the one I'm seeing now is keeping me busy and I enjoy the challenge but every guys different.
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30-05-2004, 09:58
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Been with the same lassie for three years. An old chap like me needs someone familiar; although once in while a little variety doesn't come amiss.
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28-06-2004, 18:07
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Been with the same girl now for 2 years (13 trips) , never gave me any bullshit stories and we get on very well together , so no reason to change.
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28-06-2004, 18:31
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Originally Posted by tomyam
Been with the same girl now for 2 years (13 trips) , never gave me any bullshit stories and we get on very well together , so no reason to change.
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HI TOMYAM.........
SUAI MAK MAK !!!!!!!!!
IF IT WORKS FOR YOU ...WHY NOT..........
JONNY
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28-06-2004, 21:42
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Originally Posted by tomyam
Been with the same girl now for 2 years (13 trips) , never gave me any bullshit stories and we get on very well together , so no reason to change.
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Hi Tomyam
She's a real angel mate - I would'nt let her get away either.
Weel done.
Do you live togethor in the UK or is she still in LOS?
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28-06-2004, 23:50
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At the moment I live in the UK and she lives in Loei , but i manage to get over there about 8 times each year. I am halfway through building a house in Phuket and by May 2008 will live there permanently.
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29-06-2004, 00:07
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Originally Posted by tomyam
At the moment I live in the UK and she lives in Loei , but i manage to get over there about 8 times each year. I am halfway through building a house in Phuket and by May 2008 will live there permanently.
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am i correct in saying she did/does work at coyote bar in soi seadragon?
steve
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29-06-2004, 00:48
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Originally Posted by tomyam
At the moment I live in the UK and she lives in Loei , but i manage to get over there about 8 times each year. I am halfway through building a house in Phuket and by May 2008 will live there permanently.
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Tomyam
When you go to Loei, what way do you go? do you drive there from Khon Kaen?
On the road '12' Hang a right past Chum Phae, road '201' same road to Phu Kradung Nat Park. My GF stays about 10km, just off same road about 30km from Chum Phae and about 100km south of Loei.
Hope I making sense here???
or do you go another way - would be interested to know!!!
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29-06-2004, 05:18
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she did work at coyote , but has stopped working bar and living at home with her daughter now.
Have driven from khon kaen to Loei several times and passed through chum pae on the way , approx. half distance.
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Originally Posted by r3aps
am i correct in saying she did/does work at coyote bar in soi seadragon?
steve
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STEVE..........
IS THERE ANY ONE YOU HAVENT CLAMPED YOUR EYES ON IN PATONG?
2 MORE DAYS..........YIPEE.............
LOOKING FOWARD TO A COUPLE OF BEERS IN HEATHROW ON THURS MORNING...........
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You Can't Always Get What You Want
Different strokes for different folks. Some of us need/desire variety, the thrill of the hunt, and the excitement of not knowing what the next day wiil bring us.
Some need/desire the stability and greater level of intimacy that can only be developed over the course of a longer period. Some like myself seem to feel pulled in both directions at times.
After reviewing my first two trips, the best times I remembered were not the numerous one-nighters and constantly changing faces/bodies, but the times when I spent 5-10 days with the same one. That included two 1 week stints w/ an honest-to-God virgin(no sex) in Chiang Mai.
Therefore I decided that on my 3rd tour I would hook up w/ one girl and not butterfly. 2nd night, after a stop at MTB, where all the girls seemed occupied, except a married visitor who I had a beer w/ and a BG who came on to me, but I didn't care for, I moved further down the soi and met one I was really attracted to. Spent 2 weeks w/ her. She was nice, I was infatuated, but the feeling wasn't mutual, and she just tried to play me for gifts.
Try to be a nice guy, not a butterfly, what happens. You're screwed.
Butterflied my way thru a week in BKK, ended up w/ sweet gal in Ko Samui for last 8 days.  End of story.
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my take
I think you guys have heard my opinions on this, and agian myself and jaybee think alike. I am going to LOS in 2 weeks for 19 days. My plan is to spend 3 days in Bangkok butterflying before my bg comes from her home to meet me in Bangkok. I then will spend 2 days in bangkok, 2 days at her home in Suphan Buri, 5 days in Patong, 3 days in Chiang Mai, all with her. She will then go home and I am going to Vietnam for 3 days and 1 more night in Bangkok without her. I think thats the best of both worlds, go wild for a few days, settle down for awhile, then end off your trip with a few more days of butterflying.
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Still going strong
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Originally Posted by tomyam
At the moment I live in the UK and she lives in Loei , but i manage to get over there about 8 times each year. I am halfway through building a house in Phuket and by May 2008 will live there permanently.
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15 trips now , same girl , got some good news today , fron 1st jan 2005 , will be working 28 days on / 28 days off , so can now spend more time together , roll on 29th jan ..will be moving to Loei next year...
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