Phuket Thailand

Hobbsy · #1 18-08-2007, 15:43

I haven't done a poll for a while so here we go:

Do you consider yourself a 'mongerer'?

IRISH JONNY · #2 18-08-2007, 17:00

im a mixed bag.........when a certain girl is around.im a very well behaved tourist.......but when she goes back home im the diriest bastasrd around !!!!!!!!

easyrider_au · #3 18-08-2007, 17:10

What is a MONGERER?

Never heard the word before.

MajorTom · #4 18-08-2007, 17:16

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Originally Posted by easyrider_au

What is a MONGERER?

Never heard the word before.

I have no idea. Use the search funtion

dawsey · #5 18-08-2007, 17:20

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Originally Posted by easyrider_au

What is a MONGERER?

Never heard the word before.

Never heard of (Wh0re) Mongerer before Craig? I'm surprised at you 55555

easyrider_au · #6 18-08-2007, 17:24

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Originally Posted by dawsey

Never heard of (Wh0re) Mongerer before Craig? I'm surprised at you 55555

No Dawsey never?

In your part of the world you must have barownerers & taxi driverers too?

dawsey · #7 18-08-2007, 17:30

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Originally Posted by easyrider_au

No Dawsey never?

In your part of the world you must have barownerers & taxi driverers too?

Nah mate. We call them bar owners and taxi drivers 555555555555555

easyrider_au · #8 18-08-2007, 17:33

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Originally Posted by dawsey

Nah mate. We call them bar owners and taxi drivers 555555555555555

4 online dictionaries don't recognise the word.

Sorry for being pedantic.................I know what Hobbsy is on about, but many others may not.

dawsey · #9 18-08-2007, 17:35

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Originally Posted by easyrider_au

4 online dictionaries don't recognise the word.

Sorry for being pedantic.................I know what Hobbsy is on about, but many others may not.

Craig................just get off your ass and sell some more cars 555555

S1MON · #10 18-08-2007, 17:39

i really do try my best to be a mongerer but i am just not good at it, must try better next time.

Iltis · #11 18-08-2007, 17:39

i'm all for p4p but i dont consider myself hardcore.....yet

IRISH JONNY · #12 18-08-2007, 17:54

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Originally Posted by Iltis

i'm all for p4p but i dont consider myself hardcore.....yet

another 4 or 5 trips mate and you will qualify......

sishow · #13 18-08-2007, 19:47

Depends on how drunk I am I suppose!

Still, like S1MON, I dont think im very good at it! Especially when I compare myself to others on this site that I have witnessed in action, and others reputations..................

To me, its just too much energy!

ub2yoo · #14 19-08-2007, 00:40

What's the definition of "..being proud of it" ?

JayBee · #15 19-08-2007, 02:05

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Originally Posted by easyrider_au;

What is a MONGERER?

Never heard the word before.

The JB Unabridged Collegiate Dictionary defines "mongerer" as:

1. (noun) The redundant form of the word "monger."

ub2yoo · #16 19-08-2007, 02:11

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Originally Posted by JayBee

The JB Unabridged Collegiate Dictionary defines "mongerer" as:

1. (noun) The redundant form of the word "monger."

Okay, while your on educational drive, can you explain to me what that exactly means:

"I regularly participate in P4P but don't consider myself a mongerer"

Most have voted it, in my opinion a complete act of denial.
How can you regularly frequent the P4P szene but not be a mongerer ?

JayBee · #17 19-08-2007, 02:18

Coming from the sex-starved USA, I used to be an eager and enthusiatic monger, who delighted in nothing more than taking a different girl every night or two. But there comes a point, when you realize that it is there 24/7, if that's what you want, and then it doesn't seem like a big deal quite so much.

At that point, it then becomes a matter of finding the right girl, who is one that I really look forward to hanging out with, having sex with, and just doing the normal everyday things that people do. More of a BF/GF type of thing. When I find one who is a good fit for me, then I am happy enough be with her, and don't need the variety like I used to. Technically, I am still a monger at that point, since I am paying her a per diem, and not a real bonified BF you might say, since when I leave, she is on to the next ones.

But I don't really see that as being a monger, which I define as a guy who likes to go with a lot of different girls, and doesn't want any kind of relationship for any length of time. A real P4P kind of guy with the one or two day rule in effect.

I am still a monger until I find a suitable girl, however. But it is not the same as it was before. I literally have to push myself out the door in the evening to go "mongering," and the point of it is not banging a lot of girls, but finding one who is suitable for a more lengthy affair.

JayBee · #18 19-08-2007, 02:21

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Originally Posted by ub2yoo;

Okay, while your on educational drive, can you explain to me what that exactly means:

"I regularly participate in P4P but don't consider myself a mongerer"

Just explained it.

See the previous post!

In a nutshell, the difference is that P4P is 99% about the sex, and is usually a matter of very short duration(1 or 2 nights) with each girl.

For the unmongerer, the sex is no more important than it would be for any guy in any relationship with a GF. So, how important that is, would vary from not at all to very much, depending on the guy. But the sex is not the most important aspect of the relationship. The relating is the most important part. It is P4R, or P4GF, not P4P.

As I see it, it is the "rent-a-GF" approach, as opposed to the P4P approach. For guys who are a bit less picky or more lucky than myself, this often means spending your whole holiday with the shy girl you met the first night. I hardly call that P4P. I also know of a couple cases of guys who spent their whole holiday with one girl and never had sex with her, although they did pay her a per diem, same as any other guy who was having sex would. To me, that proves the point that there is a difference between P4P and "rent-a-GF." In the former, sex is primary and there is no real relationship. In the latter, sex is secondary, and there is a relationship, where feelings and respect for the other person's needs and desires is important, just like in any boy/girl relationship, except that one of the girl's needs is rent money, money for living expenses, and money to send her family.

pablo · #19 19-08-2007, 02:25

Jeeeeez Jaybee...

Either you are, or you aren't.

Or, add a new choice in the poll.

"i'm sort of a monger, until I find a fit...then not really a full monger?"

(you are a monger, and a stalker...just slowed down with age. 5555)

Pablo

ub2yoo · #20 19-08-2007, 02:30

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Originally Posted by JayBee

Just explained it.

See the previous post!

Yes, you did, in only 7 minutes :-)

Well, I see where you come from, still it looks a bit like a chewing gum rule to me, you can bend it either way 555

JayBee · #21 19-08-2007, 02:48

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Originally Posted by pablo;

Either you are, or you aren't.

Or, add a new choice in the poll

No need to add a new choice, the choice is already there: I regulary particicpate in P4P, but do not consider myself a monger.

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Originally Posted by pablo;

"i'm sort of a monger, until I find a fit...then not really a full monger?"

They used to say a million Frenchman can't be wrong(about what, I wonder?), so in this case, it is 40% of BMs can't be wrong.

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Originally Posted by pablo;

Pablo

BTW, which one did you check off, Pabs?

pablo · #22 19-08-2007, 02:54

Uhhhh?

I'm not really interested in sex, at this time. (not whatsoever) 5555

I've taken the monks robe, and am mostly in the temple...gaining merit. 5555

Pablo