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05-05-2006, 17:15
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Today I dumped my "girlfriend"
From the Last Trip in Phuket I met a nice BG absolutely a stunner,
we had a very good time together and she was the last4 days with me. I like this girl very much , she treat me like her boyfriend I have not give her any money ( but I give her after I go to Amsterdam). When I,m back we should call, mail etc, but I think it,s a waste of time it isn,t possible to have a relationship with this girls, I don,t wanna foolish myself. So today I send her a e-mail to explain this to her.. if she wanna be a "friend" that,s ok to me Better be a butterfly and don,t be serious to any BG........ because when you not in Phuket she f*ck around with another ..... and you asked yourself do you like this??........  Last edited by carrera-gt2 : 05-05-2006 at 20:17. 
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05-05-2006, 17:49
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I WOULD NEVER HAVE GUESSED.....555555555555.......... WELCOME TO THE BUTTERFLYING CLUB !!!!!! IJ
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05-05-2006, 17:58
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LETS face it they are all at it so you have a simple choice accept it and take the mai pen rai attitude (like me) what i dont see does not really bother me or stick to being a butterfly either way dont f-ck up your life by worrying what a bg is up to when you are not in LOS because what you are thinking is probably 99% true 55555555555.
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05-05-2006, 18:01
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QUOTE OF THE DAY !!!!!!!! THE TRUEST WORDS I HAVE READ FOR A LONG TIME ......... IJ
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05-05-2006, 18:08
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Well l never looked at it from that perspective 
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05-05-2006, 18:18
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well done mate....thailand full of beautiful girls!
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05-05-2006, 19:18
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You have to accept she's working and needs money for her family/kids and right now she's probably with another guy doing the exact same things she did with you.
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05-05-2006, 19:48
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I'm still in touch with the thai girl I have been with during my last trip to Phuket in March. We call each other every week or email. This is the only girl I have been with while in LOS and I like her very much but I will not become crazy for her.
When she calls me she says :"I'm sure you sexy man have sex with many girls in your country, you like party too much" and I say "well maybe ehehe' and tell her : ''I'm sure you are with a lot of boys in Phuket" she doesn't say no and laugh" what I wanna say here is that I perfectly know that she is going out with other men and I don't worry about that, I do the same here in my home country and that's it. We like each other very much (physically at least  ) and when I will return to LOS I will probably see her again. So take it easy and enjoy your life...
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05-05-2006, 20:25
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Too many girls so litle time..... 
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05-05-2006, 20:26
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AS I SAY you have a choice if as you say you like the girl then you have to get one thing straight in your head when you are not there the likelihood is that she will be going with other guys basically put yourself in her position she works in a bar and has her family contacting her regularly for her to send money money is too easy to make and she thinks you wont know what she is up to well that does not mean you cant have a relationship with her, my girlfriend works in a bar in huahin she is good looking for those bms who have been in huahin they will tell you you are not greatly spoiled for choice in huahin when it comes to girls so it is very obvious to me that when i am not there she is with other guys but i truly dont care because 1) i dont see it happening 2) when i arrive i am mongering for 2 days in bangkok before i meet her and 3) i like being with her so as someone says to me a few years ago whilst you leave your girl working in a bar in thailand you have to accept what will happen and dont worry about it BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ! SO all i say is if you like her go for it and dont worry about what is happening when you are not there it will just do your head in!!!
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05-05-2006, 23:27
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so true!! 
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06-05-2006, 02:29
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You have a good vision how you handled this kind of situation
but I can,t . In LOS are too many hotties I promise myself be carefull, only butterflying because it,s so easy to "fall in Love " with them.
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06-05-2006, 02:36
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try falling in "LUST" with them...lot easier
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06-05-2006, 02:41
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06-05-2006, 02:42
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So many good words here...
Well since my trip to LOS 2 weeks ago I've been in contact with my GF of that trip almost daily. And I look very much forward to see her again when I come back in July. But she does work as BG, so what can I do? 1) I have to accept that this is the job she has, 2) I can break my "relationship" with her or 3) I can select to sponsor her and send her back to her town... Right now I'm on option 1. But it's hard, especially as she works at MTB with their webcam... But as Talbotman wrote, she has to live and send money back for her family. I still wanna see her again in July, but if after this I still fancy her as much as I do now, then I would not be able to accept this job... It's not easy!
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06-05-2006, 02:49
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Same same like me it,s not easy.
Take care wish you all the best mate. 
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06-05-2006, 03:18
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Hi SMF, I posted 2 pics of the 2 of you together at the end of my April 2006 tour thread. Tell me if you want me to send you them via e-mail.
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06-05-2006, 12:18
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What about option 4) make a holiday Visa to Denmark ?
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08-05-2006, 04:50
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I know, but kind of sees that has option 3b - if I ever would do something special with any - then I would take that as the first step... But it's not so much that I don't want her to fcuk other men (how could I really care if I were in DK and she in LOS?) - but I would not have "my girl" to have to sell herself...
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08-05-2006, 05:40
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Well, I could only find one with my forehead... Could you please direct me?
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08-05-2006, 05:49
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I remember posting in another thread. But are/were you looking for a Thai GF? As someone said before - its probably LUST that has taken hold. We are not used to people treating us, and being nice to us all the time. Granted tiffs happen, but generally Thai women make you feel great. Remember its there job.... read my slogan under this post.
E ___________________________________ Farang - Why did you lie to me? BG - Thats my job!
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08-05-2006, 08:35
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I,m not serious looking for a thai girl for any serious relationship ,
but I met this girl and it was a real GFE at that moment, but I realise at home it isn,t possible to have her for myself. 
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29-05-2006, 02:25
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I have a bargirl I fancy too. Besides being physically attracted the main thing I like is she is honest, when we call each other amongst the things we talk about are her other customers or girls I'm dating she doesn't pretend to be out of the game and I don't pretend that I can make the choice to leave it for her. Even if you sponsor a girl most likely she will keep working at the bar and why not? They have two paychecks now!
As far as my special lady all I ask from her is to spend some time with me while I'm in LOS. We don't pester each other about what we did in the times between and even when we talk about other people in our lives it's in a flirtatious joking manner, hell if she wants to be with just me she'll make that choice on her own I can't force it on her or buy it from afar. If I could have a serious relationship with this girl I would but not believing sponsoring would help anything but stir up more expectations that can't be fulfilled I have to live with being her part time white knight. I would love to get a tourist visa for her and have her visit me a couple weeks in the USA, I wonder if it's possible. I'm not interested in marriage with anyone at this time. |