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Old 30-10-2006, 02:39
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Since when was Manchester a center for "International Banking"
Even if it was, you suddenly have access to 15-20 thai girls "solely ecause of your job" - i think not ......

Not even sure I disagree with your sentiments but your story is bull .....
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Old 30-10-2006, 03:13
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Take it for what its worth...but a owner/manager of one of the popular go-gos in Pattaya did a survey with his girls and the age factor was one of the questions (the person asking the Qs was a Thai and no propespective customer was there with the girls so they were in the position to just say what they really thought, not just something to please a guy their sitting with)...Anyways! The results broke down as this (I know this is working girls so the responses could be different for non working):

if the money was the same what age do you want a customer to be??
17_22 =0%
23_28 = 18%
29_ 35 =12%
36_ 40 =10%
41 _45 = 20%
46_50 =13%
over 50 =9%

Or combined

17-28 = 18%
29-40 = 22%
41-50 = 33%
50+ = 9%

The missing percentage was girls who didnt answer/get asked apparently. Some people thought it odd that the girls preffered (on the whole) the older guys due to the reaction the young guys can get in the bars...but thats what the girls said!
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Old 30-10-2006, 06:16
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Take it for what its worth...but a owner/manager of one of the popular go-gos in Pattaya did a survey with his girls and the age factor was one of the questions (the person asking the Qs was a Thai and no propespective customer was there with the girls so they were in the position to just say what they really thought, not just something to please a guy their sitting with)...Anyways! The results broke down as this (I know this is working girls so the responses could be different for non working):

if the money was the same what age do you want a customer to be??
17_22 =0%
23_28 = 18%
29_ 35 =12%
36_ 40 =10%
41 _45 = 20%
46_50 =13%
over 50 =9%

Or combined

17-28 = 18%
29-40 = 22%
41-50 = 33%
50+ = 9%

The missing percentage was girls who didnt answer/get asked apparently. Some people thought it odd that the girls preferred (on the whole) the older guys due to the reaction the young guys can get in the bars...but thats what the girls said!

That equals 42% for men over 40 and 40% for men under 40. Which goes to show that you can't really generalize so much on this sort of thing. It is a case of "it takes all kinds," and "different strokes for different BGs."

Once I spent a few weeks in BKK with a FL I liked, and whenever she and her friends were talking about men, they referred to guys over 30 as men, and called guys under 30 boys. You can draw your own conclusions from that!
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Since you seem interested, I know about 10-15 Thai girls in their 20s fairly well through various means, not so much from visiting Thailand, but mainly my work (international banking) and girls living in England, and Switzerland where I now live. So perhaps my judgement- as I originally mentioned- is skewed from knowing travelled, Westernised, well-educated Thai people compared to others on here who probably know more girls from varied and poorer backgrounds........don't think I ever claimed how many I knew or that it was 'a lot' though. Like I was saying, it's just my opinion based on the people I do know.

Exactly our point.

Westernized Thai women living in England and Switzerland are not going to be anything like the same kind of mindset..

Thailand is a country based very much on class distictions, social castes, vast gulfs between tthe tiny group of haves and the massive group of have nots.. Your speaking about women already in the top 1% of social status. The other 99% of Thai women are very much concerned with gaining that social status, often IMO much more so than the age of thier partner.

I am only in my early 30's.. Wifey was one year younger than me and current GF is 5.. So its not something I am all defensive about or presenting a false picture of.. A friend of mine in his 50's just got engaged to a stunning, smart, classy appearance, non BG in her early 20's.. No one in her family or socially would see that as wierd or unusual here. Of course theres pensioners with rent-a-GF's but it doesnt take long to see those clearly (and good luck to them, as long as they both are happy) but even in real relationships thailand values social position very very highly and for a woman to be able to radically jump her social position (something not easy here.. The poor stay poor) for her and her future family its considered a normal part of the attraction.
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Since when was Manchester a center for "International Banking"
Even if it was, you suddenly have access to 15-20 thai girls "solely ecause of your job" - i think not ......

Not even sure I disagree with your sentiments but your story is bull .....

I'm all for a healthy debate, and thanks to people like LivinLOS who actually have something interesting to say, but posts like this are just pointless.

ps. I think you'll find Switzerland is quite big on International Banking, perhaps if you widened your world knowledge from places other than sex tourist destinations you'd realise this :-)

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I know plenty about women cheers. And enough to know that all my female thai friends wouldn't go near a 40yr old guy no matter how good company or how financially stable. And they definitely wouldn't get close enough to find out if they're better lovers! Mind you, we're talking educated, intelligent and relatively well-off girls here.

I guess I'll have to stick to the poor stupid ones.

I suppose soon I'll have to settle for the retarded and mentally infirm.
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I'm all for a healthy debate, and thanks to people like LivinLOS who actually have something interesting to say, but posts like this are just pointless.

ps. I think you'll find Switzerland is quite big on International Banking, perhaps if you widened your world knowledge from places other than sex tourist destinations you'd realise this :-)

When are you going to say something interesting?
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I'm all for a healthy debate, and thanks to people like LivinLOS who actually have something interesting to say, but posts like this are just pointless.

ps. I think you'll find Switzerland is quite big on International Banking, perhaps if you widened your world knowledge from places other than sex tourist destinations you'd realise this :-)


OOPs, showing your ignorance there. Of all the people on this forum, t0rn is one of the most travelled, well versed bm's.
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I know plenty about women cheers. And enough to know that all my female thai friends wouldn't go near a 40yr old guy no matter how good company or how financially stable. And they definitely wouldn't get close enough to find out if they're better lovers! Mind you, we're talking educated, intelligent and relatively well-off girls here.

So, you're 25, have a allready good job (executive?) in international banking, probably travelling a lot for the job and know intelligent educated women...
To good to be true, or does your father owns the bank???
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So, you're 25, have a allready good job (executive?) in international banking, probably travelling a lot for the job and know intelligent educated women...
To good to be true, or does your father owns the bank???
He might have gotten "Bank" and "Walking ATM" confused. As for the latter we are all banking executives.
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He might have gotten "Bank" and "Walking ATM" confused. As for the latter we are all banking executives.

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He might have gotten "Bank" and "Walking ATM" confused. As for the latter we are all banking executives.

Maybe it is rhyming slang - "Merchant Banker"
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Guys, cheers for the responses, shame they've now descended into either abuse or disbelief (can't see much to disbelieve though about working for a bank and knowing a few Thai girls), as there were a few interesting ones in there.

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Guys, cheers for the responses, shame they've now descended into either abuse or disbelief (can't see much to disbelieve though about working for a bank and knowing a few Thai girls), as there were a few interesting ones in there.


Who abused You?

evidence?


You don't know too much about women...

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one last stab

Hully,

I'll take one last stab at this in the interests of good karma. Fish around this website:

Asian girls, Asian women, Asian brides, Asian singles and Asian dating service by thaidarling.com

I've never used the service before, but this website and a few others typically show that Thai women in Thailand (many with university education), on average, look for men 10-20 years older. Sometimes more.

The TanMan

PS. This is not an advert.....
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You don't know too much about women...

Evidence?

Admittedly, I probably know far less about Thai prostitutes than most on here, but I hardly think that can be a basis for saying anything about women in general........
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Evidence?

Admittedly, I probably know far less about Thai prostitutes than most on here, but I hardly think that can be a basis for saying anything about women in general........
... He knows !!
... ... ... read his posts!
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Evidence?

Admittedly, I probably know far less about Thai prostitutes than most on here, but I hardly think that can be a basis for saying anything about women in general........


My comment still stands then.... You know very little about women....
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I'll take one last stab at this in the interests of good karma. Fish around this website:

Asian girls, Asian women, Asian brides, Asian singles and Asian dating service by thaidarling.com

I've never used the service before, but this website and a few others typically show that Thai women in Thailand (many with university education), on average, look for men 10-20 years older. Sometimes more.

The TanMan

PS. This is not an advert.....

Cheers, I'm sure that there are lots of opportunities for guys who'd be 'past it' in terms of young western women's eyes to have success in Thailand, and good luck to you, why indeed settle for an old and saggy western woman when you can have a nice young thai girl!!

Like I said all along, my judgement may well have been skewed by the Thai friends I have, who seem to share more of a Western view.
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Cheers, I'm sure that there are lots of opportunities for guys who'd be 'past it' in terms of young western women's eyes to have success in Thailand, and good luck to you, why indeed settle for an old and saggy western woman when you can have a nice young thai girl!!

Like I said all along, my judgement may well have been skewed by the Thai friends I have, who seem to share more of a Western view.

Have you ever been to Thailand?
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My comment still stands then.... You know very little about women....

Interesting that you mention that again........if I were you I'd be more inclined to look at some of the guys on here who are (still?) single at 40+ and whose rare or only intimate contact with women is on regular trips from the West to take advantage of young Thai women..............