Phuket Thailand

SMF · #1 01-11-2006, 19:28

Well she has been here for 2½ weeks now. So I’m sorry that I haven’t posted an update until now.

But except one short visit, I’ve not been online on this site since. I’ve simply been too busy. Not only with work (as I’ve not been able to take off time from work), but of cause mostly busy with her.

The first weekend she spent here she met my children (4 girls aged 1½, 4, 7 and 9). And they loved her and vice versa. Fantastic time. She’s the first girlfriend of mine; they ever meet after my divorce 1½ years ago, but of cause also the first one to stay in my house so long.

One of my main concerns was how it would go with her, when I was a way on work from early morning to the night. But that too has gone good. Most of the days when I come home, I’m met by a sexy kitten, all ready to “take care” of me. Very nice! And my home has never been so clean – one of the first things she said was that she thought it was very dirty in my house.

And wow she can cook! I never had so much great Thai food. And in this time she has also been able to slowly to raise the chilli content in the food to a level, where she’s also happy. Going from 1 to 3-4 chillies in a normal small dish. She’s very surprised over how expensive everything is here in Denmark, and is already planning to fill one or two bags next time she comes here. And thank Buddha that we have Thai supermarkets here in Copenhagen. Without them it would not have been the same. Because all the “Thai Ingredients” they have in normal Danish supermarkets are simply not useable for her. She needs the real stuff to cook!

I’ve found a place here in Copenhagen (a church), where she can go twice a week and free learn some Danish for a few hours. I hope that will add much more fun to her daily. Later when she get’s her permanent residency she will be able to go on a local government funded language school, where she will be able to go every day.

The coming weekend we are going visit my family (mother, brother and sisters and cousin etc.) in my home town 250 km. from here. They are look very much forward to meet her also. And in a few weeks we are going to meet her older sister who lives with her French husband in France. But time is going so fast! In less than 2 months she’s going back again!

The latest new experience was this morning. When we got up, it was snowing! Not in the way that everything was white and nice, as it wasn’t really cold enough it was like a mix between rain and a lot of snow and whenever it touched ground it melted. But she has now seen snow!

PS: Of cause we have had a lot of same experiences as many of the other BM’s have observed when their TG’s was visiting first time: Where are all the people? Why are there no houses everywhere? Where is the capital? (Asked while we where in Copenhagen – the capital of Denmark – she couldn’t believe that this “small town” was the capital of this fairytale country – as it didn’t even come close to the size of Bangkok!).

Nicke · #2 01-11-2006, 19:35

Thanks for the update SMF,

Sounds like it may work out fine. Good luck!

Tommychrk · #3 01-11-2006, 20:20

to such a succeess

I was starting to get a bit worried because of the silence...

Chok dee,

Tommy

IRISH JONNY · #4 01-11-2006, 20:45

tnx for the update mate....im glad things are going well..........ij

crazyswede · #5 01-11-2006, 21:15

Sounds like every thing works out fine for the both of you .. very good

Even my G/F had her "First Snow Experience" this morning .. first she got up and looked at it thru the window .. beautiful she said .. and went back to bed 555
Shooking i suppose (so even for me

) but after a few hours she went outside , touched it , looked surprised , snow wasnt colder then this ?!

555

falanger · #6 02-11-2006, 02:11

Hi smf..I have been a reader of your previous posts about her....
Glad to see all is well..

dawsey · #7 02-11-2006, 02:31

Hi SMF

Thanks for the update. Looks like you have a good one there. Glad to hear all is going well, also you now have a clean house

t0rn · #8 03-11-2006, 04:09

SMF,
sounds like it's going good so far, hope it all works out

Nanook · #9 03-11-2006, 15:04

Nice to hear you had a good start with your gf.
Hope it works out for the both of you and live hapily ever after.

JayBee · #10 03-11-2006, 15:22

Good report, SMF! Glad to hear that all goes well with you and your tilak! Thanks for sharing.

Dojoden · #11 05-11-2006, 13:58

SMF,

Sounds like a great deal... clean house, cooking and all the extras. Good luck with it. It already sonds like heaven.

AZZZEY68 · #12 06-11-2006, 00:18

A pic would be good.......

Caerphilly · #13 06-11-2006, 01:01

many pics of this "happy couple" have already been posted .....in a soft irish accent repeat 10 times....USE THE SEARCH ENGINE

SMF · #14 06-11-2006, 05:10

Well to the pictures - I will post some later if I have some that I think is of general interests. Right now I mostly have pictures of her with the kids, us in front of the little mermaid in Copenhagen etc...

crazyswede · #15 06-11-2006, 06:16

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Originally Posted by SMF

... the little mermaid in Copenhagen etc...

Hey SMF .. remember no nudity allowed around here !

MrDK · #16 06-11-2006, 11:14

Glad to hear that everything well.
Just curious, were you able to get on the same flight home or did you have to fly of different airlines?

LivinLOS · #17 06-11-2006, 13:26

Pictures of girls that have been in town for a while before meeting someone tend to be a liability. Seems some people dont have any decency and some BM's have had un necessary messages..

Just something to consider.

SMF · #18 06-11-2006, 19:44

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Originally Posted by MrDK

Glad to hear that everything well.
Just curious, were you able to get on the same flight home or did you have to fly of different airlines?

Thanks - No neither SAS or Thai wanted/could change the tickets! But she was only 1 hour behind me, so I simply waited in the Airport before the Pass Port Control. And although they where actually checking the visa's of all Thai Girls, just when exiting the plan (before actually getting into the airport) there were no problems.

Only problem now was to find my luggage, as it had been sitting for a long time on the baggage "thing" in the arrival hall.

SMF · #19 06-11-2006, 21:05

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Originally Posted by LivinLOS

Pictures of girls that have been in town for a while before meeting someone tend to be a liability. Seems some people dont have any decency and some BM's have had un necessary messages..

Just something to consider.

Of cause that is always something to consider. And I'm not stupid. Even though she did “only” work in MTB for 3+ months, then I do know that of course she had a lot of different "guests" before me.

In fact she has given me the login to her email account; so that I could see all the mail she has send since she started working in MTB/Patong. And even the mails she has send after she met me and stopped working. Even the mails were she asked some of her former "customers" for “support”. And she has even showed me her bank statement. I think in most of these mails she has been honest in what she was writing, “I miss you so, I want to see you again, I had a very good time with you, if you not pay me money I must go back and work in bar and I don’t like”. It was very tough to read! Especially the one she made after she applied for the visa to go see me! She told me it was because I said I would only pay her basic costs every month, until she would go to see me. But it sure was hard to read, and sure it made me think if she was saying the truth. But there was some major differences in the mails she send to me, and the ones she send to the others, that makes me believe that her feelings for me are genuine!

But why am I writing this here? Because I think there are many things we simply don’t understand about the TG’s, both the ones who have worked as BG’s and not, a lot of things we will learn about them. Good and bad! They all have a past, and BG’s have a lot of past. If we love a former BG, that is something we have to learn to live with, to accept, otherwise we cannot expect to have a happy life with them.

And being so open about my relation with a former BG, especially someone who used to work in MTB and thus very likely have been with other BM’s, will bring out someone who are not so decent. And yes I’ve received quite a few PM’s, but until now most have been very decent – like “I know Poo, she’s a good girl and good luck to you both!”.

I hope that my fellow BM’s can read these posts as what I see them as: Another fellow BM’s who meet BG and fell in love! And whatever happens after that!

shark1963 · #20 06-11-2006, 22:36

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Originally Posted by SMF

And being so open about my relation with a former BG, especially someone who used to work in MTB and thus very likely have been with other BM’s, will bring out someone who are not so decent. And yes I’ve received quite a few PM’s, but until now most have been very decent – like “I know Poo, she’s a good girl and good luck to you both!”.

You are right about being that open to the forum about your GF and to be honest, i wouldnt post something like that anymore. A lot of gossip or bad PM´s did hit some of the BM´s who have been that open here too. Of course you know that your GF has a past, but i STILL CAN´T UNDERSTAND SOME BM´s WHY THEY PM OTHER´S TO TELL YOU THAT THEY KNOW YOUR GF!!!!! DO THEY THINK YOU NEED ANY STATEMENT OF ANYBODY TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR GF IS A GOOD GIRL OR a GOOD CHOICE? WTF Especially if they even don´t know you personally!!!

Sorry but imho thats a bad behaviour and has only one meaning to me: I know your GF = I screwed her before !!!!

Sorry , thats just my point of view about such PM´s. I wouldnt appreciate any PM like that and would give every BM the right answer.

As i dont know your GF and also havent been in MTB untill now, i really wish both of you all the best for your future.

LivinLOS · #21 06-11-2006, 22:43

I dont think its rude to say I knew your ex.. I dont even think its rude to have slept with someones ex in the past.. People have ex's.. I dont expect or want my GF to be a virgin and I can even get on with people who dated or slept with my GF.

But one BM had some fool send him explicit pictures of his girl taken previously.. Now thats when they really baffle me.. Complete asshole.

shark1963 · #22 06-11-2006, 23:13

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Originally Posted by LivinLOS

I dont think its rude to say I knew your ex.. I dont even think its rude to have slept with someones ex in the past.. People have ex's.. I dont expect or want my GF to be a virgin and I can even get on with people who dated or slept with my GF.

But one BM had some fool send him explicit pictures of his girl taken previously.. Now thats when they really baffle me.. Complete asshole.

LiL, i never had a problem with meeting an ex of my GF´S or the new of an ex GF. Of course everybody has a past and as you said: I dont want a virgin also. But do we speak about EX BF´s of a then Girlfriend or future wife?

NO!! Those BM´s are ONLY former customers and imho this makes the difference. Also this is not a situation of meeting someone at a special place. IMHO this is a message out of nowhere , from someone you might not know personally and from 1000´s of miles away!! If your GF worked as a BG before and you are visiting the same places during your holiday´s or whenever, you have to expect that you´ll meet ex customers.

This has been discussed already in other threads, how someone would react if he meet a girl he has been before. And i share the opinion that i might give her a look (discret of course) that she knows i recognized her and that i am not unfriendly. But in NO WAY i would great her like an old friend or even hugg her, especially if she is in companionship ( who you cant know if he´s her husband, BF or just another customer)::

IMHO, this is what respect makes it, and i would always show my respect to a girl i have been with. But maybe i am just an old traditional romantic.