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20-11-2006, 00:18
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same thing diffrent falang
hi i am new to this . thought i would ask you educated lot on here for some good advice. should i chase bar girl . do they ever change there mind or is it a case of money number one. been with her for three months . been to see family in the jungle. sent little money .now the usual bar girl trait. phone gone dead sold or sym changed , i suppose that says it all realy game over. but is it worth chasing whem i go back in three or four months . should i let sleeping dogs lye no pun intended,.. think she has thai boyfriend . when i was with her i thought i was getting through to her . she is 33 not old but not younge for a thai lady.. i think that i was just a good customer what do you think
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20-11-2006, 00:30
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Move along. It's bad to generalise, but I would say that any girl of that age still working in the bar trade would be pretty hard bitten and very difficcult to 'cure'.
Let her be, if she has Thai BF and you go chasing her around you might get a little more attention than you were looking for.
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20-11-2006, 00:38
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thats what i thought just wanted to put things to bed
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20-11-2006, 00:44
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i am not realy shore if she has thai boyfriend . she lives alone in her room i know because i know some good thai lady opposite her room . who has told me . do thai girlfriend and boy friend or even husbands live separate lives . for a long time
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20-11-2006, 00:46
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A lot will have husbands or BFs, maybe back in the village spending her money.
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20-11-2006, 01:16
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i know many bg's that go out in find thai bf's at the karoke blows my mind. you see a girl, making some money, seems happy 3 months later, she has a thai bf, kicking the crap out of her, no money and making plans to leave phuket on the sly because the thi bf has threatened to kill her if she leaves him!! |
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20-11-2006, 05:55
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It's that face thing again isn't it? They think that they are a cut above if they have a Thai BF, maybe they can kid themselves right up until she get's her first kicking?
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20-11-2006, 09:57
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I dont think its a face thing myself.. I have heard and seen more established / higher end girls look down on BG's because they had a Thai guy.. "My boyfliend Amerlica" etc..
I would think theres a natural attraction to someone from your own culture, someone you can talk to, someone who eats your food, someone who you can predict what they think... Even getting beaten up, they know now that, its thier societies norms..
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20-11-2006, 15:57
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Not about changing thier mind IMHO. The lifestyle sucks them in and it is a lot of fun. You see girls that now live abroad and are well taken care of, who still come back to party like a farang man. So you need to get them onto something new and block them from the old life by being with them 100% of the time. That is the only way I have seen it work. |
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20-11-2006, 16:22
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Has it crossed your mind,maybe she lost her phone or got it robbed? Do you have any other way of contacting her? Is she worth contacting? up2u.... |
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21-11-2006, 05:11
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hi folks thanxs for your thoughts . no she has not been robbed she had plenty of money in the bank . i gave her every thing when i meet her she was with a mama san , i got her away from her for six weeks . when we came back to pattya , i got her a room and painted it . put very thing in it for , i e t v new beding cooker , all the utinsals pots pans . got her a phone. payed for the room for six months and water and electric. she shed a few tears , she said that she had not had befor , i told her to look after it, not sell enything , and that i would be back in a few months sent money for three months i dont regret eny of this as the money can be replaced in a few weeks . i can aford it. . the truth is that your are all right . good guys get burnt . think she is a bad one . and i know some will say no she is good for getting every thing from a falang. more fool falang. just hope that she keeps her room and may be one day if she sees the light and realises that her thai man is not very good . but thats a westeners view.. why do thay do it . i said i would get her to england , and she can get her daughter too . i have never been maried and am a house owner no morgage . every thing she could wont . the truth is she likes what she does and enjoys it .. up to her ..no going back for her its good bye . you are right if i went to look for her in feb when i go back i may get more attention than i want from her thai man . think though she will just ignore me just a nother good customer .....
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21-11-2006, 06:49
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She eats my food i'll stick my fork through her hand.....bloody cheek....buy her own!! Last edited by Schmeen : 22-11-2006 at 00:42. |
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21-11-2006, 06:52
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Ummmm.... this maybe a silly question...but is Alan aware of the phone number change in thailand?...I'm not sure when it turns over fully cos i had my phone converted 2 months ago....
either that or she's lost her phone.... not necesarily doom and gloom Alan, I've seen many a logical explanation for such 'disappearances', they have minds like sieves sometimes and really have no clue that people manybe worried about them. |
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21-11-2006, 12:28
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I know hindsight is 20/20..
But perhaps it would have been a better plan if the room had not been located in Pattaya ??? And trouble from the Thai guy over a BG seems unlikely (not impossible but less so with a BG).. Much high chance he would be sitting there drinking your whisky while being called the brother of similar.
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21-11-2006, 15:54
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hi thanks for you constructive thoughs . if she had lost her phone or phones have changed , she has the pay phone and my number. . as for forgetting to ring me . it does nt happen. she gets money sent every month. that will stop now . yea i think i have met the bf . taxi byike man or man that i meet in the jungle were she disapered to for six days not far from pattay , may be thats why she did not want to leave pattay for a new start in a diffrent room, some where else. . she disapeared because after 9 weeks being with her , she stole my phone and told me when i asked ..strait out . so i just said **** off thats it go. she disapered for sixs days then sudenly appeared again . in front of me . crying saying she missed me and thought that i would tell her to **** off again . which i said in the first place because i was angree after all that i had one to for her so i know i have been just a customer. and thank you for your comments at least a few things drop into place .you just dont want to see them infront of you realy . all i can say when i go back a lot more wiser is next
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22-11-2006, 00:42
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More info than I read before......I withdraw my encouraging advice....she's trash....bin her before you become another sad victim of a sex tourists dreams |
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22-11-2006, 01:41
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You took the words right out of my mouth....555 |
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23-11-2006, 02:39
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thanks gys you are right . i have a man on the ground in pattay his wife is thai a good lady , she did some asking discretly. the lady in question is married witha thai man the lieing little ,..basterd. but i dont hold it against her if she had told the truth insted of getting her a room she could of had the monet , if she said that i was just a customer i would have ****ed her eny way , hope the lass erns aliving. dont hold it against her hope she is o k. . some how like i said befor whene she is no longer wanted by falang and not bringing money in she will be binned . she will end up like a lot of uther thai ladys ihave seen , in the jungle . pisst out of there heads on thai whisky or on drugs , hope not hope her budda looks after her . i will not be nasty to her bless her ..
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23-11-2006, 02:53
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Hi Alan, Not wishing to be picky, but is there any chance you could use a spellchecker before sending your posts. I'm having trouble deciphering them.
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23-11-2006, 02:57
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I'm getting a little bit annoyed, to say the least, about guys like you. You come here winching and stir up this known story while you most likely have read some of the stories/warnings before. After ONLY 3 days (!!) posting this you come up with some investigations (which you in some way or another should have done before posting to thousands of ppl) and now you talk really bad on this topic. A topic which many of other ppl try to balance out into the positive site, trying hard to show good examples. MrDK's attempt lately was one of them. Very dissappointing that you also have learned nothing from the very good insight from Dizz this week in this matter. Hope you n-joyed your 5 min. of fame.
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23-11-2006, 03:00
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thats a great outlook by you. good to see you wish her no ill will |
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23-11-2006, 03:43
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ub2yoo yea you are right good luck bye
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23-11-2006, 03:47
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