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12-10-2007, 22:53
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Still gotta be cynical
Hi, new to this board, and I've been browsing for a few days so I thought I'd share something from my recent trip to LOS cuz I'm interested in what you guys think...
2 weeks ago I spent 10 days in Pattaya with a BG. It was pretty awesome, needless to say, but what gets me is that on our last night together as we were lying in bed, with her head on my chest she was crying. She cried for like half an hour. "Jon why you not stay with me..." "I like you Jon" "I 'appy with you". Even I got a bit teary eyed, I couldn't help it. Since she was a BG I tried to keep my emotions at bay and stay as detached as possible, but since she DID cry should I take her more sincerely? Or does the crying just tend to happen if you're a decent enough guy? I mean, we had fun together, and I was nice to her, but our conversations were never that deep or anything due to the language barrier...she still calls me every day though...and SMS "I have only you in my heart", and yesterday she said she loves me now...I can't honestly reciprocate though, I said maybe after a long time. I do appreciate her honesty as she always tells me when she goes with other men (which is something I knew from the start I'd be getting myself into) and sometimes when she doesn't because she "doesn't like him" etc.. She also keeps repeating that she only does the job for money, and although she doesn't really want to have sex with them she has to to get paid; she says she'd rather be with me. She has also said more than once she doesn't have any other BFs...and during my 10 days with her she'd always show me who was calling her when her phone rang (usually her mom or a friend), and I was with her almost every second of every day. Wasn't expecting this, but of course I still gotta be cynical, since I was only with her for 10 days and she is a BG after all. I find its not really that hard as long as I try to think of her more as a platonic friend right now. Probably should have just butterflied it...maybe I'm too nice. She was pretty cool though--same age as me (20), no kids, good sense of humor. I'll probably see her again next trip. BTW I gave her 10,000 baht for the 10 days I was with her and nothing since. 
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12-10-2007, 23:03
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all ladies cry mate.......55555555....they try and get to you...........there was even a book wrote "even thai girls cry "...........
10k was fair enuff for the 10 days......... but .one thing......you will get the phone call for money.its not an if..........it will happen........5555555......... best of luck......
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12-10-2007, 23:04
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That`s a really tough one buddy.
Sounds like you had a good holiday. Maybe you should leave it at that,and try and hook up with her again next time you go. I would give myself a chance to do a little butterlying before i let her know i was back in town next time,of course don`t let her know that. Just to sample what else is available before i committed to the same girl again second time around. I know it sounds a little dishonest,but BG`s are experts at it. Good luck.
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13-10-2007, 01:33
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thanks for the feedback
I'll take the Loops advice and butterfly before I see her a second time, I'm too young to commit so quickly lol, but since she does seem like a good girl (although you never know) I'll still give her another chance quick question though, what does "555555" mean? I think it means laughing but not sure 
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13-10-2007, 01:40
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Welcome to the forum Jonny Yes you are right. The Thai for the number 5 is Ha, therefore 5555 hahahaha http://www.phuket-info.com/forums/ne...eviations.html
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13-10-2007, 01:41
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Check out the "stickies" at the top of the "Newbies Area" especially this one.
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13-10-2007, 06:06
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Exactly! Could not have said it better. Read the post and at the end all I could say is welcome. 555555
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13-10-2007, 07:00
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welcome to the board, the girls have a certain way to enter the farangs heart seemingly at will, the cynical amongst us always seem to look on the black side of things.
good that you enjoyed your time with her but butterfly away for many years.
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13-10-2007, 09:18
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Remain cynical. You had a good time. Just try to keep your emotions in check you'll be right. You are only 20 so you don't worry too much.
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13-10-2007, 11:40
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Welcome to the board.
Good that you at least somewhat sceptical from the onset is. No one can truly answer your question, except to say that statistically she is surely looking for a sponsor.
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13-10-2007, 13:26
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welcome to the board. glad to see you hitting los at 20! wish i had ,and not waited to my late 30's.
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14-10-2007, 07:00
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Yeah I went to LOS 2 years ago with my family, loved it, and have gone back 3 times since (twice with a friend, once alone). And its not just the women either I love how laid back and friendly everybody is, as well as the climate. But I'll admit, the women is a big factor
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