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13-09-2004, 13:01
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Bringing A Girl Back to the USA
Has anyone or does anyone know of any sucess stories? I am thinking of bringing a girl back, but am also realitic of the disasters. What of Visas, passports, legal implications?
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13-09-2004, 13:19
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Yes, my first gf is now married and living in USA.
But USA is one of the most difficult countries to bring a gf to and it is also time consuming. I think the couple in question had to wait 1.5 to 2 years before she could move to US. They used advices from immigration experts in US to plan and carry out this. A tourist visa may be easier but may also be a bad move if you later want her to stay permanently.
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13-09-2004, 15:38
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From what I've been told,it is almost iimpossible for a BG to get a tourist visa to US. She would have to prove that she had been gainfully employed for a long time in LOS with an employer so will vouch for her. This is to insure that she is not going to US to seek employment, i.e., that she is not so likely to be an economic immigrant. Working in a bar doesn't count as gainful employment.  That leaves as the only other option the fiance visa, and I've been told that they won't give them out to people who can't show that they have spent some significant amount of time together. In other words, you would have to prove that you have spent some time with her in LOS, not just a quick vacation romance. This is just hearsay, since I have never investigated it on my own. I had a friend who tried to bring a girl over, but he was unwilling to go the fiance route, since he wanted to see how she would adjust to life here before he asked her to marry him. It seemed impossible and they finally gave up. He is now engaged to an American. Let me know what you decide and what happens, if you don't mind, because I don't plan on being single for the rest of my life, can't see me marrying an American woman, and sure love the TGs, although I haven't found the right one yet, but have been close a couple times. So some day I may face the same predicament. I wonder how hard it is for a TG to get a tourist visa to go to Canada, or Mexico? Just a thought. Best of luck to you and your TGF! 
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13-09-2004, 17:22
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I helped a Canadian guy and his TGF with certified translations for their visa application, I dont know if it was fiance or tourist visa but she got it. I met them when they come back to Thailand for holiday. So I guess Canada is more easy.
USA is not impossible just a lot more work and you need how to act against immigration/embassy officials, know what they want to hear and not hear to be granted a visa. So I guess it is best to take professional help from experts. For European Union it is pretty easy, UK the only exception.
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13-09-2004, 17:33
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Alright Ahyes, Dont take this the wrong way im not trying to be bad but you dont even know the girl, So why would you want to bring her back to your country after knowing her for just 2 days? You really need to think about what your planning to do, At the end of the day your just another customer to this girl, She might have made you feel like she really cared about you but after just 2 nights believe me she wont even be thinking about you, She's more than likely working her magic on another guy who thinks she only has eyes for him and all she's really thinking about is how much money she can get out of him, I dont mean to put a dampener on your dream but really use your head(the one on your shoulders) thats all it is, If you really want to be with this girl you really have to be living there for a long time to get to know her better like you would if you meet any other girl from your own country, And even then could you really trust her? That every time she goes out when your not there thats she's not up to her old tricks? As i said all ready im not trying to be bad but it had to be said....
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13-09-2004, 17:39
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My experience with a Japanese girl
I went through the whole fiancee visa thing one time with a Japanese girl. In the end I changed my mind, but we did get through the approval stage. It all worked very smoothly. You'll need some proof of the relationship shuch as pictures together, emails, etc. You'll also need to have various documents translated, a health exam for her, etc.
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13-09-2004, 17:43
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I have to agree with allybaba here, if you met some chick in the states for two days, you wouldn't ask her to move in with you (unless your an emotional amoeba that is), common sense would tell you that you need a significant amount of time with a woman before you can tell for sure, sometimes you have to look at your feelings and work out if it is love or lust that your feeling. If you are still serious about this girl after a month, go back to LoS and spend some time with her and see what happens.. Good luck mate 
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13-09-2004, 21:30
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i actually talked to an immigration lawyer about the fiancee visa and he was reputable and he said that hed be able to do it. it would cost about 3500usd total but youd be assured everything was done right. i had zero intention of marrying the tg but thought it would be fun for her to come here. you can do it yourself but they say if you make even the slightest mistake, your application will be returned and you have to start the process all over again
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15-09-2004, 05:17
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NO, no marriage here...
I was just thinking of how to bring her here to the US, if possible. it wouldvé been nice to spend more time with her and see if she would like it. thanks for the advice.
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15-09-2004, 11:42
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Seriously do yourself a favour and move to Thailand - Bringing a girl back to your own country usually ends in tears. It has done for me anyway.
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17-09-2004, 05:34
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If I Were W/O a Child I Would
I can't leave this country or even the city, since I have my little girl who needs her mother (though I can't stand the ***** and would love if I didn't have to see her).
If only, then I'd actually consider it. But if I could leave to anywhere I wanted, I'd move back to Hawaii. Now theres plenty of beautiful women there, and I wouldn't have to look for working girl. Now talk about beautiful Asian women. I think Hawaii has the best looking women in the world. Why? Because they have all the Asian blends, mixed together, and they tend to retain the best of each ethnicity. Imagine a girl mixed with Japanese, Chinese, Hawaiian, Filipino, Korean, Puerto Rican, Irish, Scottish, or English? Maybe even find one mixed with Vietnamese, or even Thai! Wow, get the picture?! Thai women are def. hot though. Not only exotic but they can also appear Filipino, Chinese, Korean, or like my hottie, Japanese. Damn I miss LOS. I won't be back though...only a one time thing. Fantasy over, life goes forward!
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17-09-2004, 05:37
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YO, b. you said you had a relationship that ended? i take it you took her to your country. what country was that and how did you do it? what happened that made it fail? hope you don't mind the ?s but im still curious.
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19-09-2004, 06:52
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when you guys go to a pet shop and see an exotic bird in a cage,you must feel that it shouldnt be there,well with out being blunt its the same for t.g`s ,they are exotic creatures who flurish in their own enviroment ,but the is a big change when you take them out it,if you really want to be with a t.g try living in los away from all people who speak your language,then you might just see how it is for them .
just thinking out loud .......
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19-09-2004, 23:50
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Thats absolut right. I `ve been with my wife one year in thailand before move to germany. Some people in my country say: "Oh you took the easy way. Married a thai woman". I don`t think so. It`s not easy for her and for me too. Such a relationship is much more difficult than one to a woman from your country. Although it doesn`t seems so. And if someone plans to bring a tg to his country don`t forget to say "I don`t have a lot of money. I just have to work and so you have to". Because some girls in thailand think we live in paradise. And for me it`s not paradise i live in. And the last: Never expect to understand everything. Do it like the thaipeople. Just accept it like it is. (sry again for my bad english).
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#15
20-09-2004, 01:33
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22-09-2004, 20:40
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I was in Botswana, Africa on assignment. She lived with me nearly all the time but I caught her cheating a few times - I suppose I was a soft touch as she had a daughter, 6 months old when I meet her and I raised her so I thought OK I have to shift for work lets try getting married. (Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun anyone???  )I am from Aussie but I got an offer for Sillypore - So I thought nuetral ground as Aussie law sucks big time on divorce if your a man. Your right I was still not a hundred percent. We got here and she satrted to play up - While I was at work she was down town bangin the local and visiting well to do making a tidy little fortunre for herself until I found and kicked her out. Nothing much more to say on the matter but it definetly defines the way I feel about women in general at the moment. Use em and loss em... Thats all she did so why should I always be the sucker... Any good pscyho therapists on the board
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