This is a discussion on Rules of the GIK.... within the Relationships with Thai girls or bargirls forum, part of the Thailand related category; A girl at my local bar in lala tells me she wants to be my gik I am not up ...
A girl at my local bar in lala tells me she wants to be my gik I am not up for GF having finished a month a go with my ex. Does this mean she wants a phone a friend to keep her warm at night or is this about being mates going to the movies friends only etc I like the idea of that, does anyone have a gik whether in a relationship or not. Some of my local Thai friends have giks mostly they sleep with them there doesn't seem to be any financial arrangement.
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A Gik is just a "friend with benefits", if theres no sex and you hang out etc their just a normal friend....if she is to be a true Gik then yeh no money should be involved....also she shouldnt get pissy if you have other giks, barfines whatever.
A fool and his money are a girl's best friend.
Gik just means casual lover.. A booty call or fcukbuddy.
Your probably going to have to drop her some cash and its about the same as 99 out of a 100 other BG / customer relationships..
A closed mouth gathers no feet !!
heard that before, wondered what it was
ONE WAY TICKET TO BANGKOK, SIE VOU PLE!
Intersting ok maybe she also means a gik leading into a BF/GF relationship the day after she asked me if I was butterfly she knows I've been shagging a girl at the Blackcat bar. While I am on the subject of this buterfly saying it gives me the shites how can I be a butterfly if I am single and sleep around I thought it was only tagged if you had a GF and where slutting on the sideOriginally Posted by Izzy
Agree... money will probably be involved at some stage, no matter how she has termed the casual relationship!
Butterfly is just a term for someone when they are sleeping around, regardless of their current relationship status.how can I be a butterfly if I am single and sleep around I thought it was only tagged if you had a GF and where slutting on the side
The butterfly analogy is just that you 'flit from pretty flower to pretty flower' without any attachments.Intersting ok maybe she also means a gik leading into a BF/GF relationship the day after she asked me if I was butterfly she knows I've been shagging a girl at the Blackcat bar. While I am on the subject of this buterfly saying it gives me the shites how can I be a butterfly if I am single and sleep around I thought it was only tagged if you had a GF and where slutting on the side
Note when Thais talk about a Gik for Thai / Thai its usually not meaning P4P more fcukbuddy.. But on Bangla with a farang gik its 'adapted' to the environment
A closed mouth gathers no feet !!
Butterfly is just a term for someone when they are sleeping around, regardless of their current relationship status.[/QUOTE]
What if you don't sleep around much are you then a moth.....?
These reported events are like an arrow shot at my heart but it lands at my feet.
I choose not to bend over, pick it up, and stab myself with it.
I found that when i was afforded Gik status, rather than cash there was a trip to the gold shop involved..........
All I Wanna Do is Do It
What if you don't sleep around much are you then a moth.....?[/QUOTE]
only if you (dont) sleep around much at night ....555
All who wander are not lost
only if you (dont) sleep around much at night ....555[/QUOTE]
Ahhh then i think i would rather be a moth love a lazy arvo 5555555
These reported events are like an arrow shot at my heart but it lands at my feet.
I choose not to bend over, pick it up, and stab myself with it.
And if you are a hard core monger they'll call you a helicopter.
Having a gik is good, only an SMS away.
Befriend a fool and you invite trouble.
Airport then Galaxy after that!!
Funny lot BG`s.
Live Fast.........
data isn't information,
information isn't knowledge,
knowledge isn't wisdom.
I get the idea that with a Gik relationship there is usually a BF or husband involved that is being cheated on or is being kept out of the frame.
My ex called me her Gik because she had to sneak around so her 17yo son wouldn't find out.
Let he who is without aim throw the first stone
Thai`s don`t see it as cheating.
It`s quite exceptable to most.
data isn't information,
information isn't knowledge,
knowledge isn't wisdom.
I asked my GF to arrange a Gik for me, her choice, just to cover her unavailable days.
She didn't get angry. . but her recommendations were a little scary.
Lew.. it's spelt "acceptable", tch!
Last edited by jaffaman; 07-07-2009 at 13:09.
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data isn't information,
information isn't knowledge,
knowledge isn't wisdom.
I'm an International Space Station allegedly!! Oops its bar closing day and there goes the phone!!!!!!!!!!!!
Some people are always right- even when they're wrong.
Every day I larn something new,
I thought Gik was an abbreviation for Guy In Kamala and was used by the BG's to describe their 'other loves.' Y'know, the geriatric retirement home ones
Some things I cannot explain.. but, I have an excuse for everything...
I know a waitress who is a gik to a married policeman. She says if she were to go with another guy and he found out he would have her killed!
This Is Thailand - It's all abaht the baht!
Thai girl saying:"I have farang boyfriend...I can only go short time!"
So she's the "gik-ee".
But if she was to become the "gik-er" she would be Kaput?
Doesn't sound like the Thai tolerance mentioned above - but then he is MIB.
Let he who is without aim throw the first stone
GF conversation last week with BG friend who works in Soi Sukhumvit.
Friend...i have customerrrrr,married man want me be him gick..
GF...i don`t think good to be gick with married man...no good..
Friend...he say he give me 20k/month and nice big house to stay and MB..
GF...jing jing (really??).I think you should go..
5555
data isn't information,
information isn't knowledge,
knowledge isn't wisdom.
the word GIK derives from "gig" right?
From The Nation>>>
Poll finds 40% spouses have lovers
BANGKOK: -- While most people in committed relationships demand faithfulness from their partner, a recent survey has found that a number of them cheated - or are still cheating - on their significant other.
Of the 1,480 people aged 18 and older who were polled, about 40 per cent said they had had one or more romantic relationships with people other than their spouse or committed partner.
Nearly 40 per cent of these unfaithful partners said they were still cheating on their partners.
"We are concerned that having 'giks' [casual affairs] will become something common," said Noppadon Kannika, head of the Assumption University's Social Innovation in Manage-ment and Business Analysis Research Centre, yesterday.
The centre conducted the survey on October 9 and 10 in Bangkok and nearby provinces in a bid to explore why people cheat on their partners.
According to the survey, women's fussiness, men's incompetence, family conflicts and loneliness are among the main reasons why people are unfaithful. Pursuit of sexual pleasure, the desire to prove one's sexual appeal, and stress were also cited as reasons.
Some 87 per cent of respondents said they heard about extramarital relationships and casual lovers from news reports.
Noppadon voiced concern over the finding that the respondents tended to consider these casual relationships - known as "giks" in Thai - common.
However, when asked what they would do if they found out that their partner had cheated on them, more than 85 per cent said they would not be able to accept it.
Asked about their reaction to the recent scandal over a top official at the Social Development and Human Security Ministry having extramarital affairs with subordinates, 76 per cent said their trust in the ministry had diminished.
More than half of those polled wanted government agencies, non-governmental organisations, politicians, Cabinet members, businessmen, actors, actresses and singers to campaign against unfaithfulness.
"We are also concerned that people who should be role models in society, like politicians, high-ranking government officials and celebrities, are often seen as unfaithful to their partners," Noppadon said.
This Is Thailand - It's all abaht the baht!
Thai girl saying:"I have farang boyfriend...I can only go short time!"
Classic money talks the rest can walk
Wasn't 'Space station' between Airport and Galaxy?
also heard international airport a few times. 55
if it's got tits or tyres, you're gunna have problems.
Yeah,they`re thought to be busier than dometik...555
Have heard the space station one.
Galaxy = butterfly mak mak though.
data isn't information,
information isn't knowledge,
knowledge isn't wisdom.
My understanding of 'gik' is a casual lover for a married Thai guy or lady. A female gik would be an unpaid lover in the arrangement. A male gik would be paid for his services in many occasions by the thai lady who was just looking for casual $ex, not too much different from being a male pro$titute.
This differs when the term is applied to a farang, I think it means a regular $ex partner that has no call on you, is willing to allow you to continue seeing others. In reality this situation is rare as they usually move from gik status to gf in their own minds.
If you get it right, and I do know of a few such relationships, then it is a girl who will ring you or is willing to sleep with you when you ring them, for nothing more then mutual satisfaction.
If I havn't done it already, then i'm gunna do it today.
Tony, I do not think it originates from gig, as in the musical term, however it could be phonetically spelt like that as depending on your accent, that is how it could be pronounced.
If I havn't done it already, then i'm gunna do it today.
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